As I see It

   A father was locked in his house by his married daughters who hv been disturbing him life long. They locked him so he can't go out n.meet anyone and tell them about the mistreating n daughters who abused him. He was nit given food fur several days only late evenings when they come home after their outing he was given food.      Most of the time the father was forced to baby sit all the grand children. His penssion was taken by the eldest girl who was working n earning that time , the other girls children were eating his hard earned money , a father's sacrifice is unlimited but having cruel n heartless daughters is something to feel very sad.. This unlucky father died due to weak body n bad health n mistreated by his heartless daughters, who being a reason for his sufferings n his death. Time   teaches everyone..Only Time will  show how the last days of these cruel daughters Time will teach. Just let's wait n see... the result.

     Those trying to fool ot to be funny with older people especially father in-law or mother in-law. Kids can be fooled , can be playfull to younger generstions but never play with Fire means older people, you will be in trouble. Older people are the trouble, try to be humble n be nice to them,if  you want to show you are bossy , great to older people ,you are asking for trouble.     It's really sad certain human beings hving tertiary education which is not helping certain human beings to practice  culture, Norms n Values, but instead.. these younger people wants to give shocking experience to the parents of the boy. she has been dating, when a day n time was fixed to meet this girl, she arranged her friends to sit at her back of her boy friends, parents .favourite Top man in the University invited to observe her Childish, worthless  insane  of seducing her boy friend in his parents presence , which caused irritation and annoyance to the mot...

    Beliefs  varies. In Certain term.its known as ones  belief in religion or in other terms  this can be refered as ones own experience or knowledge.       People  hv good intention to raise others kids n afoot their own grand children .or relatives Children. Some expose the kids or Youth's as they are growing to family Chores. Some protect these kids ,over protect them n preserve them as mannequins by nit giving any exposures or experiences. Especially young girjs who hv Completed schools , raised in the care of grabd mothers nit given any task but let them rest in the.house like dolls, as the girjs grew up meeting any you g men coming to their house or knowing n befriending good natured n good looking handsome you f.men, they fall for them.        When no responsibilities given ,no ambition , nothing about future exposed to these girjs, they just want to marry that young man abd live with him only. Unfortunately he has ...

    A father gives his best fur his childs life, even a flow learners is given exposure to pursue what ever that could, help the Child/ you ster to proceed in life. A new member joining the family  beings lots of Chaos in the future n life of the youngsters growing up.in the absence of a father under the older ones care.        When a school is inviting the Child to jijn free studies, the older ones tebd to be dumb n dud not hear what was shared with them.       But when the older person below average child joins private institutions with the basic  requirements , the parents wants to provide the best fur the child. Sending many thousands fur the child to go on vacation n stay several days with own money n experience a different culture.           The youth, days best at higher Institution neglecting studies, parents are very proud of their child boasting. The younger sibling not given a chance to liste...

    Loss of Close relatives or family members is a loss abd something to grieve. But a woman behaves extremely different when there is funeral among Siblings or close family members including her husband's Death. Since young severely mentally affected a gurl grew up in an extended family , after all the close relatives leave the home after getting married, She recreated the same extended family environment by chucking her Children at her father's house, used countless of lies to manipulate her close relatives including her Children . The severe emotions of her were exhibited during her father's death, husband's death, mother in-laws death. Shockingly her dad n her mother in-law dyed within few months, within the same year. Her mother in-law was very sad sering her son's father in-law died. But within 4 months of her inlaws death, she died silently without falling sick.         Those death were something which gave her energy n she exhibited her ste vlisevte...

    The experience given you by others ,however good or bad. It's a good lesson, so in future you will not do the bad people hv dine to you. Whatever people gave you, the missery, the torture,mental torture, making your life miserable, all they will get back in double, whatever that caused you suffer, will go back to them in multiple. So you dnt worry about anyone who being a reason for your Misseries. God will take care of those human beings, he will handle them as how they should be handling themselves.          Don't be fooled by their non stop dramas, unnumbered Scratches created by them. The Sin of creating lifelong missery for those whom trusted her, who she Victimized fur her own Selfishness. All those victims if they can come n tell about this person. She will die if heart attack. Now over Confidently too many lies hv been, spreaded. Just because those dn't live anymore won't come bck.    

   A girl told this real life story , after found out the relationship, fake love and Countless of Dramas created by a woman who not only destroyed the  happiness of a Family, but swindled the future , professional development , career of lady married her brother.      A heartless, very selfish, self centered human being lifelong lived after destroying the happiness future, career, life .    A loving father, his happiness started to fade as she started to tell lies n cheat his hard earnings . Took out from his pocket money while , the father was sleeping. Fur babe sake the eldest in the family, the younger ones , the father n mother not.bothered, family environment did not improve as this was getting a job n started earning. . Unable to get clothes fur own Siblings, but dressed like a rich.lady with whatever she earns. Father n brother the sole bread winners of the family , they were na aging all the siblings n everything.      ...

     Year 90 ies was the year a young Teacher was posted to a rural school. This Teacher comes from an advanced back ground, attended Cowd school multi racial.n.multi Ethnic     The school she studied has Clinic for the primary students, with a dentist n and dental nurse for long but service is only fur Primary school students though Primary ,Lower Secoundry n upper Secoundary all in 1 compound .    The school she studied easily students s ires As n that school stood as 1 of the Top school at state level. But the schools she was serving n Teaching left far behind  in studies Cocurricular . Countless of Schools with ample of Teachers head masters keep in producing zero annually due to BM paper which neglected by the admind.               Some even scored very low marks in English. Seeing this Situation, this young Teacher wanted to help these School, the best way is to get the ministries attention. So wh...

    A dedicated Teacher upon her posting, was Teaching in the school.that was placed her, due to lack of English Qualified Teachers.  Though she was placed in.a rural district away frm home 1 Year she managed To teach in thdt school n participated in extra Cocurricular activities on weekends. She brought her family with her, n her family stayed that weekend in the house she was renting at the back of the school.        Her kids were sitting for exam n they needed her attention so she begged the State Education office for the transfer some where best to her home, after. Year sge was place almost 25 km away frm her home.     On her first day in the Second school, while she was Teaching the form students English , she realize some one was at the door observing her. She was serious in her work. After a while she realized that person was the number 2 man of the  district Education office, observing her Surprisingly.. She had very good rapport...

     Muhammad this is the name.of the Prophet, the Prophet came in to several Avatar's inspired , infuse, motivate n gave strong impact in.tne life of very dedicated Teacher, whom being a role model to thousands of Educators n young people.    According to her , the Education officer at state level was Mohammad Yasin bin Mohamad , after attending interview she called the officer n asked him  how to prepare her self to join the selected University . Sge was adviced to study Literature, because this is going to be the main course in her study year's.     Another co staff same age with her non stop inspire her n advice her to pursue the NPQEL course , several time he told her, her answer was, sge is happy bring an ordinary Teacher n serving the young minds n hearts till she retired.      That Senior assistant was no other than another Mohamad Abdul Aziz bin.Mohamad. A very inspiring Colligue never ever exhibit bossy or Dictator. One of...

 A teach who was not bothered by her siblings,wants only the best for her students. She motivates them inspires them to study ,not dream to go fur higher studies, which never told to her by her older Siblings,who just made her a full.time nanny.          As how she dreamed for her students, all of them even the last bench excel in studies. This teacher never stop learning , when ever she gets the chance she up grade her self by attending Courses related to her profession.some how she ma ge to get degree in Education st the age of 45.while her kids are in Secoundry school. Still she inspire her kids to pursue their dreams , whatever they like, in whatever fields... After retired n after bored of visiting places around with her hubby she started to explore different Continents. Something unique about wht she observed n learnt ,The community sge met though not highly educated thru posses values n Norms. Which is quite rare among the literate or highly educated...

      My brother my mother's only Son this was what a girl told her sister in-law who was match make  to her brother whom she life long stole his hard earnings since school days.       Her utterance seems like concern n care but selfishness loaded , this was revealed after this girl married her brother, without given chance to know him, to talk to him or hv spend some time with him. The marriage was solely a Scam to trap this girl who had lost her dad when she was in standard 4 . Her mom was Sick . Her brothers all had their favourite woman whom they worshiped like Goddess.      This  girl n her younger sister were left with their mother but during  public Holliday's n festivals the siblings all gathered in their house, the two younger siblings were bought lovely skirts n blouses either by one of the brothers every year.        As the brothers  got married , the youngest of all the brothers started to s...

 Two type of siblings who raised n mould younger siblings. First type raised by only parents. These siblings e courage theur married sister to be in touch n meet their school friends n childhood friends. The ones raised by them., brave, kero on learning ,improving abd life ling worked hard n tahe care of their younger ones well , caring .      The 2nd type of older Sibling. Made the father baby sitter, took his penssion, arrange for her younger sibling n her husband to stay with the father. Never let her younger siblings to meet their friends or to get to know them after 

      A teacher says the sweetest part in her teaching life was handling the Adolescents. The teenage boys, who non stop almost 80 percent  of them aproached her n say, Teacher I love you. Teacher will you marry me .         The teenage girls were like pussycats with their sweet smile, nod their head n agreedwith whatever the Teacher shares with them. The toughest were the ones who hv been neglected by their own mothers who are very bussy with bisness or family financial or hving too many kids. These kids were given more task n more attention by this Teacher. Many programs were arranged for these boys with the help of the nearest Police trainers , who volunteered to train the boys n give them more physical training to occupy their time wisely.       Today those selected students are in the police  ,in Military as fire fighters. A teachers job not only Teaching but moulds the younger generation to a better path.. So no regrets t...

        A teacher who chose Teaching ,when the family members n Close relatives told her only Teaching n nursing are suitable profession fur ladies. Though she stands better chance to go into other fields . As long she was in her mother Tongue abd native School , she was treated N was getting wht she suppose to get, she felt her job nit challenging abd sedentary ,So she started to explore the other language schools and attend  as many professional Circe's as she can related to Teaching. What she learned n given experience by others. Her service was needed badly, where ever sge goes nwjivh ever school.she joins.         Not only the schools she served needed her contribution n.full time , but her family ,siblings nmtheur children abd the new family she joined after married n their offsprings needed her during weekend n during long school break.       Even the family gatherings were something that made her regret joining and...

    Humiliating this is a situation , a Cheater who Corrupted n negotiated with Corrupted people , promoted not for the good/ noble  work but fur cooperating in Cheating..       .Such incidents abd Situations are happening everywhere including among heads n Staff in working  places. When thus happens or Occured at an educational.indtututikn, a pls e Children ,Teenagers are being taught. It's something to be Ashamed Of. Too many incidents , as such non stop happening around ,no one dare to question. People go to many extend to be promoted , even thru cheating or Corruption..

   Surprising n shocking, too many useless, unfit, lack skills and n lack.lsngguge Competency wants post , though they are not qualified, n lack exposure n humanity still.proplrvwsnt power.         A lady was telling a young girls Bout her experience of misused , bullied, abd trapped by.peoole whom.she trusted. That young lady committed her life abd a educated Teacher ,expects nothing but just give ,share , show , guide ,assist the younger generation wh.she has been handling , teaching abd Coaching.       She was given the neglected classes of Children, those whom.negkected by.wife of Higher officers, wives of professionals . Teachers who are the wives and daughters of Other Teachers wants the best classes , best rooms, n.less teaching hours .        Sgw accepted whatever situation created fur her. Seeing her naive ,good nature n willing to serve poor n.needy children, other Educators who want to become the main.peopl...

     Teenagers Badly need their parents around them when they are growing . At least a mothers presence determines a childs Confidence in dealing life matters.         But when a mother  neglects her kids and leave the responsibility of Raising kids to others n wash her hands means . That mother is evil. A mother left her kids at her father's house n expecting her younger sisters to tahe care of them while she was enjoying life as how she neglected the younger siblings.       When the girl found a boy friend, the mother was overwhelmed n happy. When the girl was t to follow her husband ,who she married, the mother started new dramas, do the girl can't follow her husband n stays with her forever.    .Lunatics can't see anyone living happy life, no matter who are they..So a great Drama was telecasted , to stop the Dsughter frm.jkiningnher husbabd. The death of the as aunt was news. So the daughter came bck home n stayed with...

 Unlucky dad was house arrested by own daughters . He was.licked frm.outside by the daughters without given food the whole day. The 3 duster went far away frm home regarding some prayers...        Thus father was locked in his house in the morning by the Hitler sisters who stays in father's house but tortured him emotionally    This father was rescued by his son n daughter in-law in the evening when the son n daughter in-law visited  the father. This was going on for  some time repeatedly.       Many many times the father was house arrested n locked inside the house by these woman frm.outsife with out giving him food. Once he escaped by opening the door n went strait to police station n lodge a report against all the daughters who tortured him. Police visited the house and made enquires . The daughters were questioned, they lied to the police sayingb they  dyd not lock  him.in the house.. The leader fur all these youn...

      A father provide the best fur his children n family members as long he was working and earning.. The bad luck he had was , His eldest child a gurl being a curse to the family. He gave his kids best school.life but the eldest was the one who being the 1 who controlled the we hole family . Failed to guide or asdist her younger Siblings , instead e joyed her school life, coming home late ,not bothered about the younger ones needs .    The younger ones were looked after n tahe care by the father n the 2 nd child , a bit who started doing part time works after school.furbhis pocket money n to help his family. The heartless eldest girl, steal the brothers hard earned money with out his knowledge. This eldest child is z curse to.the family. The bigger child,who suppose to be a supporter to the family ,but live life as she wished. All her earnings were used to get expensive clothes , n her cosmetics. Unable to get anything fur her dad or fur the younger ones ...

    Extreeme this word  carries various meanings. Extreeme means beyond Normal.       Extreeme food, extreeme weather, extreeme anger , extreeme fat, extreeme good, extreeme skinny . All these are bad. Medium is the only size or wright in everything ,.means Average is always safer, healthier, strong and available...    Extreeme cold , extreeme hot. All these infuse human beings to a negative or not good state in their emotional, mental n physically.     Eating extreeme level meat in hot climate n cold climate infuse multiple negative n undesirable situations fur those who eats n those dhomlives with these meat eaters..        By adapting Vegan style or plant based meals in daily life , being a safer n healthierife n e vurinmdntbwhich create non stop inventions n unnumbered creations n innivations by these plant based meals eating habits adapted by scholars n normal human beings..       Plant based ...

      Some human beings assuming they are the great human  beings, showing the world the they are great people n great home makers. Teach the basic Norms to the family members that's greatness. Nurture your child as an ethical being human being, if you practice all the dirty things. Your child will leave you even if you provide everything best n thru wrong way. When you need them,to be with them. Your child  will leave you n go far away from your eyes. This is applicable to all human beings .     Mothers who hardly reads or posses reading habits, being a misleading model to their children. Their focus on their child, controlling , scolding, giving bitter experience to the child.     Showing their Bossy attitude to their child.Adults who being care takers,  who over power their Children Seems making mistakes in life when yelling at Children , Controlling them, shouting at them.Make great mistake in their life. Such family members  lo...

 Humble request to anyone who likes taking people's belongings pls stop doing this n return those things you hv stolen or taken without their concern.    Sedarlah. Macam namababoerasaan kalailunyiunounya barang atsunkepujyasn org ambil . Org bg makan , kalaubtak boleh bust baik dian shjlsh. Umpana org bagi you makan jaga baik tapinyou bakasvdebgan berakndalam pinggan yg dibeti makan . This is the truth , of those who keep on stealing things or dresses  or belongings of others. Animals life long life fur those who hv been feeding them. But        Unethical human beings will steal abd keep in doing bad fur those who hv been kind to them. Such human beings are known as Unethical human beings. Dunno how they hv been raised ,hiw they hv been feed ,hiw they hv been educated. It's disgusting, bring such bad quality human being. Sedar lah sebelum.lambat. 

    A mother who works day n night for the betterment of her children, Expect nothing from anyone, live minimal life ,raise her children thru wht she earned or with her husbands earnings. Teach her children to  study well, pursue higher studies , work part time ,earned their pocket money by doing part time job while studying..           Give the Kids confidence to std d on their own feet eith out expecting others assistance ,that's a mothers  duty, but how many educated , mothers, those completed higher Secoundry school ,are they still as able to guide.       I get to a mother who lost an eye when she was a child, Raised by her mom n maids. Lived like a princess, posses pure heart. She inherit the Indian Royal blood thru her dad. Parents are mixed ethnic. She has an older sister n yep older brothers bring the youngest n pampered, excelled in studies. She was z strait A student in I level exam. Her dad an engineer has other...

          Two people education n qualification the basic or not to promise a normal or average life to.live, but married very hard working individuals. These two human beings cones frm problem based family  financially, socially and emotionally not balanced.        These two are hyper n exited with the new life n the unexpected luck in their life thru very hard working spouces. They were started to behave weirdly due to over excitement. Started to m7s treat n neglect the person they married to n started to give attention to people who were strangers n unknown people.        Both were relatives pleasers. Situation started to change. The more focus n admiration given to their own siblings. One by 1 the siblings fall sick. The earlier 1 started to loose her brothers whom hv not been bothered by this older siblings.    Another one started to loose all his loving youger sisters. These two human beings hv been too...

     Peoplebwhobhv been eating street food, food which is not quality ,bwhen treat or presented with high quality n nutritious food, tend to find thousand one reasons condaming the food prepared for them.        People eating not quality  food ,experienced same type of food prepared at home, by relatives , find a better n class food as lousy due to its not as how the person expect it,  n consistency .         At 5 star hotel restaurants only  quality thick mushy creams n  soups are served, those who never tasted such good food ,find these type of food as not worthy  and class less.      A  Vulture used to eating worms n flesh,when given or feed with quality meals, those are  poison to such creatures. Taste bud nesting sense differs frm people to people.        The more human beings explore different culture , n taste different regions food prepared by people diffe...

 Lemon ,cardamom n lime can do miracle in ones health. Add lemon peels in plain water, it will purify the water.by adding lemon peels in drinking  water, one cdn shed wright n eliminates tocibs frm body , Cloves ,Carmoms and lime vleance internat orgdns and keep those healthy n protected..     Drinking lemon n lime juice daily cdn boist ones health.Add more savoury taste orbsavourvtaste fruits n veggies in your meal fur optimom health.    Health is wealth, so the Certificates died t seem to  help in this situation..

     Simple homegremefies such as uding badil leaves ,blsvkmpeervirn canngedl fever in half sn hour. A lady said she used the basic home grown herbs n whts available in the kitchen to heal various health problems.  This lady is an avid Reader. She was reading books she bought thru a book dhop which sells Diynth India Ayurvedic healing methods. All solely uding home gruen n kitchen based herbs n spices.     Babies 6 months above a very tiny portion of basil leaves n 1 peppercorn was used, to rest high fever by adding 1 or 2 tiny granules of salt in the decotion.     Adding basil leaves in fruit juices n smoothies get rid of girul infection. Using cloves in hot drinks n in hot water , v can strengthen immune system. This ladysbnedsage about life abd living . Paier qualification only to certain level the rest simple Basic healthy life style.     Adding green leaves, ginger, turmeric cloves , black pepper corn, garlic , sweet po 90tatoes in ...

 Hardeorf never wasted. Never regret fur working hard. A very hard working man n woman hire fiyntjess of children and slk the children lived hedkthy life and worked hard.. They worked hard eithiutbexiectiing anything as incentive, asvtecignstion. Ehtnthry learnt thru their parents ,behind knew only hardwork . 

   BA man very popular among his friends ,society, always want to be the determiner of family. The powerfull person n playing the utmost role in his family n among Siblings.       The very good looking man was playing the role of provider, care giver n as sole human of making decisions. Something was going wrong in his plans nations after he got married to a girl.     From a loving caring human being he turned out as a selfish, n heartless han bring thru the Teachings n attitudes he ketntnthru the woman he married. A girls who was living a refugee life adopted by close relatibes, seeing her relatives visiting . Non stop dramas broadcasted since her childhood dslmaternal side family members. She adapted wht she saw wants the only though, the man she married to hss begger family responsibilities but all his siblings  hv completed high School.    ..the youngest girls are good in studies, this woman was lower Secoundry school drop out. Mater...

     A mother n daughter Team, set great plans for the Son in-law. Since the day the daughter joined college. Thousand n 1 lies n non stop family tales about the greatness of their family told to the boy they both liked n planned her to know him, know the family back ground . Surprising but the truth.         College or hunger institution is a place human beings go there to better them selves n tomoreoare them selves fur a good future, but the girl n mother had great plans fur the girjs future. A Top student n studies as well as Cocurricular studies was selected by this gurl n her mother ,thisbgurl started to follow him ,follow his neighbour hiud girl, be rruebd her, found out abouthe bits bck ground family n parents background n siblings.       Thru the friend sge was trying to be close to this biy who was friendlier with almost everyone n very popular in University. First this girl told him she was a strait A student n prefer to p...

 Being a naturalist , occupying time, need some time to breath.life style,home, family ,responsibilities all these can kill the spirit of highly ambitious or highly motivated human beings 

    When a Teacher is too good n caring,it turns out as a problem for the Teacher. Weehebds that teacher requested to be weekend mommy or nanny fur the poor kids. So this Teacher brings home 2 or 3 kids , her students every Friday to her house. Monday morning she takes them  strait to shcool , with her.     So every weekend, sge has extra 2 or 3 kids staying with her neices n nephews. Her brother vacate his room n let the young bits to stay in his room when the God children followed their Teacher. These children just like own family, following the Teacher n her family.menvers where ever they go. Temple, beach , siblings house , late evenings sea side to watch the waves touching the sand.     Since this Teacher was a vegetarian,vsge cooked only veg meal at home. All her family.memvers est whatever she oreistes but her brother visiting them frm Ipoh on weekends bought  KFC meal n.sgares with everyone including the young guest. Some how these ki...

     Military training, some might say Tough, some might pursue higher courses in this line. A girl born into family of too many boys, grew up with them, by wearing their shirts, Shorts, Trousers . Deeply in her heart ,since young ,wants to serve in Jobs such with uniform bodies.      She says she had too many cooks in her family as older Siblings. Each one of them wants something different for her Future. One said she should choose either , nursing or Teaching , another said. Only Teaching is the best option. One more forced her to repeat the same exam even though she was qualified to pursue Pre uni in the Same school, her school. Main people sent the clerk  to her house to inform her  to join Preuni .This was not given a thought or bothered by the younger girls older Siblings ,who married n runs a hostel in the house to support debt for the house payment.        Some how the too many cooks made her life a hot soup. She couldn...

      I was only 5 or 6 years when I saw my athais eldest girl, as an elderly lady used to carry several combs of Banamas when visiting  us she walked all the way frm  Sitiawan estate to my kg house. The distance almost 3 to 4 km. All by walking  only those days.         The first one n the child who choose to eat maximum bananas  it was  me. I was  eating bananas as though I'm eating a meal. The sweet soft bananas with tiny seeds inside.The delicious snack I used to eat during my child hood days.     Appa planted red, Cavendish , pacha nattan, n Curry Vazhai in our Compound. I don't remember eating cooked bananas , only ripe bananas during my child hood days, other than sweet juicy Orange colour Flesh Jack fruits ,from several trees dad had planted when he is off.        I don't remember eating imported fruits, only home grown fruits ,freshjy plucked from our trees. Guava was another fruit wh...

     Life long, talking so sweetly, getting everything , taking everything including others Happiness. Living in own psycho world, expect n ask married Sibling to get provision , clothes, food meat, sea food to celebrate n join father's DeepValli Celeberstion with his children.      The Psycho takes ,gets everything , kept n used for self n for her Jumbo pigs, according to the close relatives, This psycho had two young siblings died when they were young, no reason, unable to identify the cause of the two healthy infants death.    This has caused emotional disturbance to the mother n unable to think wisely ,and always looked loss.. the infants death still bring a missery but after going thru lots n lots of deaths n loss among close relatives , the answer is the same culprit psycho longing for parents attention , care n love n the younger ones presence being a disaster to the Affected psycho, Close relatives n Close family started to be Victimized o...

     Being 1 st child getting all the best  frm everyone  including  studying in high school.. though not qualified to study in government School.      Father managed to push the first n 2 nd child in to Govement Sector. No difference in family, spend lavishly like born into wealthier .  all the earnings spent on clothing n makeup, own Siblings neglected, unable to guide or motivate them,instead make them Scape goats. The younger ones used as a bait to get everything from only brother.      A brother who was not bothered at all by her ,Started to give attention n seek attention , thousand lies n stories just  to get money frm brother, n spend as she liked.     .Brothers family life, sisters marriage all ruined by this monster. Eat expensive food. Left the children with Younger siblings whom hv made Scape goat n to be her Slave . Sent youngest Sister to Mental asylum after used her two years salary all by her...

   The worst experience given n created by the heartless 2 nd sister was choosing strangers, as husband's n.married off the girls to unknown people . The girls were not given  chance to  meet or to know the person they will be marryingl    Both of these two younger girls posses O level qualifications n can persue A level or Preuni at Government Higher Secoundry schools with out paying fees . But one needs a heart  n ability to think  for  younger ones future n wishes .   This is the fate of young siblings growing up without a father n with a sick n helpless mother. A Dictator dnt posses  such  nature..The girjs beggings , cries not bothered by older ones, When younger Siblings being too naive ,hardly talks bck, or talks softly, older ones make decisions by them selves..  God is  great, the father n mother in the form of Gods, protected these younger girls who were spending most of their time with their father n mother...

      The two older sisters played the role of a mother to the younger girls, untill they have their own family. Gere started the trouble, whennyvingnown family, their nature changed, but their generous never changed.         Deepavali even after married the sister's Celebrated with the younger siblings n their mom. Various cookies ,delicacies were prepared n shared with visitors who visit  their house. The younger sisters class n school  friends were ,attending the Depavalli Celebration.       Those were the special years as a student in her life...Nice dresses they were getting for the younger girls whom they treated like Princess ,that was untill they hv their own babies.        However good the younger sisters,nthe younger girls were like a burden to the older sisters when squating with them thiugh monthly certain amount was settled by the brothers fur foid n accommodation fur all of them.   ...

       The two older girls n the  siblings  were being the main people who decide.whatbthe yiubger girjs need to go thru. Two youngest girls were forced to stay with the older sister n  they were just like refugees. Feelings Emotions not bothered, they were indurectly forced by older sisters thru close relatives to find job n asked to live independent life with their earnings.           The eldest found a job n when she started earning, her income was controlled by the 2 nd sister. Saying she will manage her finance.dresses ,sarees were both n stitched by that sister as she likes n not  how the younger ones wants.         A girl who was infused ,.motivated bunger School Teachers, adored by the Teachers, targeted as ugly not good at  pursuing or following orders or completing task,bthis was the comments the 2 nd older sister giving nmshsrung with whomever gives good Compliment baby the younger ...

    The 2 nd son being the main person deciding everything for his siblings. Forced to stop schooling when he was a good student, thisvrage never stop him from not learning. He hardly talksbtonhus younger siblings but only deals with his older sisters. Monthly he contribute certain amount to the main people though they hv been.married n live with their husbands happily. He had guilty feeling towards the eldest sister whom he married off to an estate worker.Rhw decision maker was the girl fur her sisters marriage just because she was the only one highly educated among the older siblings .     Here the Hitler started to playb his role in the frame of 2nd older sister...Same with the younger siblings were not given chance to go for higher studies or to pursue any courses .Fatherless young ones life is not a good one. It's a refugees life,sqysting with older siblings ,follow them where ever they go or shift theur6 home..      Unpredictable life. The inkynf...

    A simple example. A family lost the head n it was managed by older children. 1 eldest child was playfull.n.did not realize the burden.of father towards the family .      Too.many children n parents attention on younger children. The father was showing his love thru getting things furbthebrkdest child, such as bicycle when he was in standard 6.       This boy hardly gets the parents attention so he started to explore other states n districts on his bicycle. Almost several days. The father was scared seeing the eldest child missing n started asking neighbours school friends and his police friends. Some how managed to traced him at the northern.part of Malaysia. He was brought home. Again he left home in two years while in form 2. Seeing him eager to travel.n.explore his father bought him, a motor bike. Again fur the 2 nd time he was missing on his bike. The reason this young man was leaving his house,on n off. The father's job was on call. ...

    People who made you feel inferior, people who made you feel ugly, people who wants you to be away from them, People who never give you a Chance, People who refuse to listen to your  begging, People who being a reason fur the worst feelings , People who being a reason for your loss, Anyone ,whoever being a reason fur you to keep your self away.from them.          Who ever being a block fir anything that you like, People who hv made you a fool life long. People who ever don't wish to see you happy, who ever refuse to give your freedom.        Such people, not worth to recall, to visit or to keep in your heart. Just accept n think only the good things they hv donenfor you. The good food ,the good time, nice dress, good childhood. Just live with everything good in your heart.     whtever people robed frm you, people take from you, just forget those, n forget those People...Visiting home town , one must hv Good me...

            Kids as they grow up, their surrounding infuse their interest n hobbies. School seems the most important in. Child , teenagers life. Learning from their environment, friends,family , school, Teachers seems important, hut after high school, Youth's being dumped into  which are not their taste or choice ,same with  the choice of profession.          Some youth's guvenfreefom to choose the job or course they like . But in early 20ies parents or Siblings force youth's to get married. Some too good , and being bullied or controlled by their parents. Decisions in life matters.nitbgivem chance to those who live under shelter of older siblings in the absence of parents.         Older siblings who hardly gets exposure of family environment, give power to the older family  member, to decide the younger educated n working siblings life matters...Very funny isn't it, the younger ones, not given cha...

        This world is only for the strong ones , to live, to survive.To work hard, to earn n to live as they like.

      Life is too short to entertain others , some life long served , lived and worjd hard to be a good family member,sister ,mother. At working place,dedicated worker / staff. But people just take things for granted when being too good, too kind n trying to please the family members .         Caring younger sibling, or soft hearted siblings used as a Scape goat, to get get everything or whatever these siblings posses.       Slaves created for them selves. Shockingly, very good young siblings are dominated n guided wrongly by siblings who are not sure of what they hv been sharing, blindly guide the younger ones until the younger one who suppose to do well  be a victim of stupid , dominating older ones who being busybody n make the younger ones life miserable n cause severe damage. The younger ones goidbin studies unable to pursue their dream or higher studies,due to the highly ambitious n selfish older siblings who were pampered by ...

   Childhood days frequently eating fruit means. The tiny dark coloured fruit. Thats curry leaves Fruit/ it's cherry very strong in Flavour.      My family has a bushy curry leaves tree with bush of cherries ..Small round cherries with strong Tangy flavour..However, I'm sure this fruit is not common among the Asian people.   Anyone who own a curry leavestree , definitely will get a chance to taste the Tangy taste fruit .   God has been kind to whoever posses good heart.. .

    My 3 stooges brothers , one by one ,3 look almost same age though their age difference 2 to 3 years. They   very hard working youth's,teenagers I hv ever come across in my life. After dad's death. All of them started to work so hard,after school hours n on weekends. They 3 on Friday and Saturday nights follows our family friend who was working with a Chinese boss of Chicken farm. This friend since young has joined this Chicken farm as a worker n and when the chickens big enough to be transferred into lorry workers needed to catch place those Chicken into the lorry.      So my 3 brothers usually after 9pm called to help to pass those Chicken into the lorry.. almost 3 hours, their work,each one of them pd 5 ringgit each. They were given.baus( steam cake dumpling ,)!cakes and carbonated bottled drinks such as Orange juice, or packets of crysentimum Tea. They bring home n share with me n my sister. Me nmmy sister were still awake till mid night waiting...

    A  relative was visiting her long lost Sibling, she asked her sibling if her Children are Visiting. The Sibling who visiting her older Sibling, asked her older Sister about her nephews n neices whom.she meets during family  outings or family functions only.    The older Sibling Replied, if they are not visiting us , whom they will visit. Thru shwsys gets everything for us . The reason the Sibling asked her older Sister that way because , one relatives new co.er in the family lives / squats with her mother , after married n hardly visit her inlaws, though her inlaws take good care of her .       The new Comer either visit her age inlaws or help them , nothing but visit her inlaws n take Vedeo s live and shared with her mother's Siblings about her aged inlaws whom she hardly assist or helps around  shen she visit them once in a blue moon. This girl carries the greatness of her parents, her uncles about their family's everything at extr...

       Never give 2 nd Chance to any,unempathetic human beings who being a reason fur the misseries they  hv caused in your life. They can be anyone. There's a limit for everything. Just keep ur self away frm such heartless human being, the more you being good n nice, the worst human beings they are turning into..    Who ever never listen to your cries, who ever never give you time, you just make your life like a clown, who ever  hv been a reason for the uncountable troubles n hardships you hv gone thru.       Discard them from your life, you dnt hv to tell them you dnt need them in your life. Dnt Tell them anything, just be silent . Dnt meet them, avoid meeting anyone of them. Let them feel your absence , be zero in their life. This is the best gift you can give heartless human beings.       God has given every human being 1 chance, to play the role given to them,if they fail to play their role sincerely , they are d...

       A girl was given only 3 months to agree and to say Yes to the decision of her older siblings regarding her life matters. Though thisbgurl begged, cried n ask for longer time. The older Siblings were not willing to support the girls education or interest. Living in the absence of her dead father n sick mother who was getting her husband's pension.All her Dons n older children were away frm home . 2 daughters married the boys all schooling n the younger daughters were studying.        .mother n the girjs with 1 brother n 2 niec were taken care by the married sister, whose house was a hostel which accommodate the young sisters , two working adults n 2 more relatives children. The duster n her husband were pd monthly buy those who hv been squating in their house.       All of a sudden the sister was burdened with responsibilities of cooking,taking care of home n handling the school going girls.    Extremely stresse...

   China Town in Singapore, seems very popular for Tourist for food n to explore. But Certain back packers hostels care takers seems to do extra work other than taking care of the hostel or Youth Cafe. Seeing Solo elderly ladies putting up there, these care takers especially older man ,giving information about the single senior ladies to unethical Men whom they hv known , boasting they are exArm force n National Service men . Very funny, Men hv ethics especially those who ever hv served in Armed forces or in enforce line.       Shockingly these men set their CO unethical older men to follow the solo Senior ladies , and with  their wife or partner beside them.and non stop asking too many questions ,thinking Solo women travelers are weaker woman, n will be very humble. Education not fully completed at high level.Or higher Secondary School but want to disturb, and trying their best to flirt with a single traveler thinking , that solo traveler , will be si...

 Though the young neice is separated frm her parents. She was getting good care frm her grabs ma, 2 aunt's n her uncle who was working n staying with them.Thsis twin looks much better than the 1 staying with the parents.     Twice in a week after school around 2 pm. Mom, the gurus her younger sister n the baby neice started their  journey of visiting suster. The babies parents n sister. Walking thru , rubber estate trees, crossing clean miniature streams n seeing soft white sandy soil along the small river with clean water, wDjing face n drinking water n reach the sisters house almost an hour plus. The suster mixed tea n mage some snacks fur her mom.n sisters who brought her child with them. When it's almost 6 in the evening, the gurj, mother, younger sister n the beuce returned home by taking bus from different route n reach home before it's dark. The baby mom, suster every one were healthy n calm after long journey of walking n having meal at the sisters house ...

     Secoundry school though beside my house , more learning alot of skills , indoors n out doirs. Learn to preiSre basic meals such as rice, Rasam, tomstie soul, dried fish sambal.,pudding, rice flour steam n burnt cakes using sugar eggs n coconut milk of wood fire stove.       Learn to stitch m.mahe dolls , stitch bags, Shorts, skirts ,inner garments, just by observing older sisters while they were stitching n cutting materials..cycle to School , almost 4 km frm,home every moring Solo. Circle of friends changed , started frm study group when. I joined my class mates. Chinese friends, after school we sit in school canteen and revising our  lessons. This started almost two months before lower Secoundry exam.The only Tamil girl joined Chinese friends who hv been visiting every year Deepavali. Close childhood friend n neighbour girl joined Malay dancing class, it continued fur few years so there was gap among friends  who Hardly the same mingle...

    Begining from primary continue in Secoundry school, more explorations Solo all, explore my family vegetable ,food forest.  weekends were exploring vegetable garden or food forest, tapioca n corn were my choice of food, I choose to roast there in tapioca area. Young Tapioca n corn few pluck , make.using dryed tapiocas leaves n twigs , roast the we hike tapioca tuber n corn with the skin n.peel after it looks burnt , perl.thos3 burnt part n est the inner white soft flesh which wasvfo juicy n nutritiously, these were my younger days most delicious food prepared by my self. Just like Jabe In jungle... 

       It's a blessing when hv too many loving , caring hearts around. But friends seems the important ones. Hardly stay in the house, just outside. Learnt stitching n sewing skirts,shirts and toys frm cloth materials and waste material..        One by one the older ones leaving the house in the name of better job n permanent job n away frm home n stayed there. When Sisters  married that was  strong  bond between her n her mom. The only soul wondered n cared alot about her mom's commitment..      Till age 12 hv covered n explored almost her village town , n her surrounding , feilds, neghbours who hv shifted far away frm her house almost 4 to 5 km. Father's Aunt, relatives grandma. Visited n stayed with her. Something beautiful about this grandma, her vegetable garden all authenthic  root vegetables, rgg plants ,spinach ,Sour Spinach ,moringa all hv Bern grown in this grandmas vegetable garden.This grabsba was eat...

    My exploration  started at the age of 3 .birn into.fsmiky of 11 members including mom and dad . 5 brothers n 2 older sisters n a youngest sister. Untill she 13 life was on a bed of roses.         Age 3 I started to explore my neighbour hood. Being the only girl growing up with.toosmy bits in the fily n in my neighborhood, always surrounded by either my brothers or my neighbours children ,around my age ,the boys. Started to get optimum sun at this age. Most of the time playing in the field, farm ,vegetable garden under tree, on top of tree, chasing duckes n chicks .         Catching grass hoppers with neighbour boys  n school.fruebds after school . The only wild girl only one soaked in sun the whole day,  skin tone was brown burnt .      Not bother who is joining us. The myna catchers.rbetu tree in my.neighbiyrbhoid if can talk ,will tell.my name, because daily collecting picking fruits falling frm.t...