As I see It

    Perfectionist are the ones who being  human beings caused countless of chaos in the life of those who trust them. According to a girl. She surrendered her life to the older siblings , due to their compassionate , caring and loving atmosphere  created  by the older ones in the family in the absence of the parents. As the older ones started to hv their special ones in  their family , the older ones focus to better their life , so they ,they want to send off the younger girls by get them.married .     No one willing to hear , the younger siblings request, plea, about marriage, A girl who was not given choice in anything related to life, studies, food, clothing, hobbies ,interest but was made a puppet I've by those whom she trusted., life long. She was not given a a chance or choice in anything in her life  to decide or to plan her future.     God has given her several, exceptional skills and skills, but there was no one to ins...

     These youngsters are blindly..married off without their Concern.n the new family expect them to take care of their children ,by providing financial support . This new comer xpected to stay in the house with them n handle the whole family all by herself without her husband. Non of the family member works or earns.       Ambitious n selfish Older Siblings has caused countless of heartache n missery in the life of a younger Sibling , who just want to learn, study n.equip  knowledge . When too many sibings try to be to over protective and  being decision.makers in one youngsters life.          They are just like too many Cooks with too many ingredients and spoiled meal.This is how these Older Siblings action has caused a young ones life in missery .        Less exposure about life, hardly get chance to  mingle with Various highly educated human beings , Hardly go thru bitter times or go thru ...

        Very   long hours car drive or traveling in car can cause missery or can make any one insane if non stop drive. Anyone face uneasy situation or over stressed fur just sitting in the car fur many hours king drive or travel, get down at the next    R n R.        Walk bare feet on the grass, touch  grass, or pull the grass  with soil n.feel the soil in.your  palms. This is a insane unbelievable therapy to over come the stress of long hours sitting  in the car. So when travel.ling long  hours , every hour or two hours stop the car n walk bare foot on the grass, let your feet feel the green grass.let your palms feel green grass n soil..The best healing theraphy  thru Mother Nature...

 A girl said she was only 19 when her dad left this world. Her youngest sister was in standard 1. Both these younger siblings were experiencing out door activities away frm.hime with their dad, when dad was on off day. The dad owns a bicycle n he pedaled his bicycle And the two younger girls were on.his bike, the youngest was in front  sitting n the older girl was at the back of the bicycle.      Their dad takes this two girls on weekend to the nearest river bnk which is almost 4 km frm their house , n let them.play in the water with fencing...after they played, he will rahe them.tinhis older friends house, there they will be served Tea n fried snacks. Their father's friends were a grandma n a grand pa. They seems like his good friends ,with them.rbetiful  dadeau started his young age story sharing with them. Their sin was a dresser at a private Malayalee Doctors Clinic. Dresser means ,Doctors assistant . That clinic was my dad's panel clinic. When the olde...

    Teachers day is the only day Teachers are honoured by students fur their sacrifices in the profession. Being a Teacher, various roles a teacher especially lady Teacher need to carry out as long in Profession. It's not as easy as how people thinks.        Teaching job / work as a Teacher in a Government school n being an empathetic Teacher means a very challenging period fur the Teacher. Too many responsibilitiet brought to this Teachers attention.      School uniforms meals, extra classes ,all these caused too much strain n stress to the Teacher. Very good Teachers are pulled by certain Principles to their school n the Teachers life n fate determine by the administrator. Seeing all these situations, somehow Such Teachers get transfer to other school with in 1 or two years, but the environment never change same with the humans at the new place they joined work.    Only on Teachers day these Teachers are given several gifts by the...

  Sentimental.Selfish  Psycho, no matter how the family environment n the family members, Herds, this is how she wants everything around her , easy money easy food ,eating too many paid less maids n Servants.     Own siblings were lifelong  servants n Slaves, where ever anything free, n easily getting she is there.eisure life, without working dir it but get it thru her sentiment.     The good n,skillful healthy n others favourites are all gone live a life of Corpse in her, care being her life long skz es, ate wht she cook n give them.      Such cruel  heartless  Psychos are still living the luxury life by controlling the human beings in her life..Only her appearance Changed but still the same  Psycho  from her younger days.     Use her born n her younger Borns to Ttract shrewly the one she has been controlling life long. Humans are treated just like herds,So life long Are has the herd type family fur her , w...

    When someone moving away completely from certain human beings means, the experience n and the damage is severe...

        As how this was shared by a lady..       A very good looking young man, being the only son to the family with many daughters. Family was.livimg as extended family with aunt's uncles n Cousin's under one roof. Once the father was supporting the family n as the boy was   growing up, one by one the family members ,the aunt's n uncle's married off by the father n only the children were left in the house with the parents. The eldest girls after school started to earn but focusing on her self grooming n dressing rather than having time with siblings., at age 14 this boy started to work as an assistant to a man n followed him in his vehicle.      This boy hardly gets chance  to mingle or learn anything frm educated adults. Labourers n self employed people only were in his list of people n non of them helpt him to hv or to adapt any norms or values. Those what he learnt frm his mom when young only practiced by him.Too many...

 Wow, life is really beautiful, nothing to complain n to compare when being on own , in the open air.      Walk Walk n walk , I walked alot today , roughly 6 km. Burnt my calories, feeling good, finding my own time, resting n away frm home several hours , almost 9 hours away frm home, walking eating ,watching movie..     Back to my younger days place when I was a youth. The place I walked daily spent almost , half day mugging books. The only place during my two years staying here visited daily n spent the day frm morning till the library closes.   No boy friends , no hobbies .just reading , learning, ,studying, doing my study. Something I cherished in.my life, which I hv been doing lifelong.. Walking in the the hot  sun, Covered my face n head with a cap,  returning time, drizzling, walk  in drizzled without getting wet.     Now almost an hour waiting at the train station. This is an escapism which   I choose onc...

    Everyone goes thru multiple phases in life. But only selected one gets the optimum exposures n bitter experiences in life..    Too.msnybrestrictions n over protectiveness cause countless of peoples life becomes a question. Some life long live fur other, some life long live a selfish life. Some live by killing others emotions feelings, like and passions.       Only certain people go thru hardship life long for being loving caring,empathethic, Certain people pls their life as they wish, select the life partner as they like, by doing a research about the siblings family members n life long live a life they design them selves, the sane human beings easily and adamantly arr ge the you get it close family members life as they like n not as how the young ones wish to live.       Life long the life of the younger one being interfered by family members in-laws, siblings ,untill the younger one could not live the life they suppose to live..Whe...

     Cruel means heartless or not Compassionate, when own Siblings, husband n inlaws being heartless. Life is there to test the one who has been living with such human beings. It's a cursed life..      Own family being heartless, not bothered.The worst told by Victim. The wife was treated as badly as to the worst by the man who married her. She was treated as a slave, her hard earnings were taken by the man who married her n given to hus favourite people n his Siblings.     Daily that poor woman was showered with filthy words , according to her, she was forced into this marriage by her own siblings.she lost her dad when she was young, her mom left this world when she was away frm.home.     The worst her husband do was when ever they were outing he arrange his past to be at the place his wife taken fur meals .      Every outing was arranges so that mans ex or affairs wait at the place he takes his wife. According to her, th...

   A very heart touching n cruel incident caused by certain unethical human beings in the name of Vetenarians hv caused a let to mistreat hv extracted The teeth of the animal  asked to be warded at the Vetenary Clinics.      These unethical human beings not only fixed a high rate of payment fur the minor injury, but also created countless of dramas to convince the innocent owner of the Pet. One of the drama, the pets bones all rotten n very week, the leg n pelvis of the animal is dis located, die to an accident, so badnt need rest to recover. The let frm.normal.went  to a high level stress stage n body very week after staying at the Vetenary Clinic. Two huge teeth at the.left n right dude of the pet was pulled by these Clinic People.but never reveal, the active anu

      My heart aches when seeing filthy educated professional lacks integriti n ethics in their life especially in their profession..    Several Decades ago profession is accepted as God. The Japanese Community accept their profession as Godliness n never do anything that can disgrace their profession or Victimized anyone . My heart aches when a lady told me , her pup which was injured taken to a private Veterinar clinic was asked to pay certain amount n the fee was fixed before the.trestment start. Several dramas were created as though the dog was given drips , in real nothing only bandage was on placed on the  pups leg. Two teeth of the dog was extracted.       The main teeth the dug was chewing the meat. Unethical human beings are in the frame of educated professionals. Surprisingly particular veterinary Doctor owns several Vetenary clinics at University Towns.     integrity abd ethics now being questioned in this matter, its...

   The Word powerful is very serious when it's being applied in life n in reality. Some egoistic older siblings being the reason fur countless of younger siblings troubles n misseries in their life.      The word love  and care misused  by selfish n egoistic older ones,for their own selfishness . Unnumbered innocent youngsters who surrender their life n future to the older ones, life long suffer I silence. Countless of the youngsters died at young age dye to misery , slaved by own older Siblings who being the dominating ones.     To control the uncontrolled situation , Several younger siblings hv been  to away due to irresponsible n selfish  older siblings attitude, the worst Situation, several younger siblings given for adoption due to irresponsible older siblings who not bothered or not posses caring attitude or care about one younger family members. The worst Situation is the younger siblings earnings misused b older siblings in ...

     The Ethics in family or close siblings, should never bring bisness matters into. Should never Make Profit or seek bisness among close family, this culture easily can break any family.        When family unites, its a moments of sharing of values , norms ,ideas , assists those who need help. Guide, if they seek your assistance. Never  create business hub  when the moments is to meet n to, Know each other better.          A young lay shares about her family side family gathering, she said, several of her siblings use those moments to highlight how , proud they are about their kids. Whom hv been.pampered n spoon fed by the parents.     According to her. "Every one is unique, few of us life long struggle"  n non of the siblings,shared anything that could build their inspiration or any stories which could be referred as ideal or role models. But the family starting was used as a HUD to highlight the pow...

       A Teacher not only Obliged to the school or institution she/ He works. This human being is superior in many ways, multiple skills, knowledge and ideas which being a Change , a Paradigm to the Nature, Environment , society , co human being, Teaching fellows ,Parents and Surrounding .       Teachers prize given to various human beings in Teaching Category , who hv given their part by being an.influencer in the life of young people, known as the Teachers students.      Many being hidden by so many factors by the schools , parents , Society as nothing, because , when people can think abd recall the goodness anyone did,its easy to be recognized. Everything n every one need a big heart to see the good deeds anyone do. When.oeoe close their eyes n ears for anything good. Such human beings hv closed their eyes n ears to see good..       A dedicated, caring Empathetic educator has made or created a very easy situation fur th...

    Being a Tamil Teacher with qualification in English n with the basic Teaching cert to Teach in Tamil School has given great experience of life time, to a Tamil School Teacher who went thru countless of challenges n misseries created by the heartless human beings in Schools she has been Teaching.       Her rights were looked down  her worthiness being laughed by those with strong Influence of  leadership or leaders qualifications or lack  of leadership qualities, unable to identify  or  being genuine, to the person who works tirelessly to better the school they hv been serving.          This Teacher not only changed her option but hide her option so she can be safe n work in a peaceful environment. This has caused countless of loss in her working environment, salary increase, n the hikes were not given to her. How ever hard She works, people or the bosses make themselves blind purposely to stop her frm getting...

    Working environment, this is something, everyone wants best. especially a new comer or anyone who being a newcomer. Places n people around you work with determine how you should be evaluated. A lady Teacher, starting life after married far away frm her home, n home town, faces helpless situation where the local Teachers silently decided not to tolarate or help the admin, those administrators  being the main Teachers or Senior Teachers.        After serving 20 years, in her mother toungue School n not given better evaluation marks, though she helped the school ,admins, Students even after school hours n during cocuriculaar activities,  in many ways to better the environment n the young ones whom she has been handling daily. Though non stop she has been producing quality students, n top scores in those schools she has been working,with  the heartless Human beings in such Environment, who being the Dominating group , decides other Educators ...

      A girl, who lost her parents n live in the shadow of her older siblings. Life long went thru obstacles,.misseries n Challenges, just fur being loyal, loving , caring n for being a good listener to her older Siblings.        In reality that girl was the most favourite girl n well liked by her friends , Teachers n.neighbours. As she was entering in to early  teenage . One by one her sisters got married n followed their husbands. Until the sisters , married, she doesn't know anything about kitchen, cooking, main meals.     She learnt to cook rice , n to prepare simple meals, what she learnt in her home science class. That knowledge helped this girl to take care of her home, family members and her neices n nephew. Age 14 one sister at 15 another sister. She has a youngest sister who is 4 years younger to her.She realizes her sisters absence after their Marriage.      Though she was timid, she was liked n cared by her Tea...

   A young girl shared alot of her  life stories , how sge was raised, how she studied, her school life , life with her parents.     Something she shared was surprising, be cause according to her , her older siblings getting dress, uniform everything class . She says her older sisters used to stitch fashion updated clothes for her. She never ever had  thoughts I'd getting anything fur her with the weekly allowance her brother gave her fur her personal expences.       A shocking surprise came , when her burgers girl friend gifted her a blouse which had smoken.lookslime it was worn several times and dried at a smokey corner.. Another incident was, she was gifted a material by another brother's wife telling her, this is only  she has fur Deepavalli. One meter printed Cotton material best suit as window panes cover to hide sun rays. This gurl said she was surprised, do people still use window material as clothes material or materia...

      My first HM, is the first outsider, n the only man who, challenge me non stop , asked me alot of questions , for being a Teacher in his school , untill he transfered to his home town ,the man who exposed me to multiple ways of gaining knowledge , sent me to most of the KBSR cources when I was Teaching in his school. Library Cource, physical Education Course , English Cource for primary school students. School trip to Cameron Highlands .       School Sports day,  Celebration,  neighbourhood Schools sports day Celebration, duty as a judge..RMT for students..One group of students vegetarian. So two types of food for students..       Teachers day Celebration, School Cocurricullum ,Wednesday outing ,hiking Teachers n students. The only female Teacher with 3 men teachers.Teachong in that school.    Countless of books he bought for school library. Though very small school, students were , given the best privilege, The schoo...

      A very talkative, influencer ,Selfish, goes to any extend to make profit , to get anything for herself. Norms, Religion , religious Teachings seems shit. Unpredictable character mingles , only with extreme human beings , address self as" blessed beyond measure", a breaker of homes , family relations .      ....A disgusting human being. Too many lies , mingles with human beings beyond age.           Pretender too mxny homes ,families hv been.Victimized by this pretender full of lies..Seducer...     Only Gud n time will teach countless of lesson,life lessons to this ...human....WA TS everything easily...wants everything  best but everything in wrong way....

       Too many heartaches n misseries encountered by a lady thru out her life, either thru relatives, own siblings , new Comers in family n thru Working environment.      Too much pressure, stress , dissapoinments , irritations. All these being a reason for this lady to avoid any celebrations or Good moments, to rejoice her life. Sounds weird but this is the truth. Life long in family , profession, age has been used as a referral.bybthose whom she has trusted. Being the influencer and strong  worker on the environment She worked.    She Volunteered her self to  cease any program Organise to Thank her , to give recognition for her. A very unique and rate human being. At very young age she learnt her religion. She had wonderful.,Amazing gurus who Made her realize how important she has been in those places she has been working as the most important human being , as Savour of the good environment.     She doesn't like publici...

        Woman generally soft hearted, like to pursue what they like, like to live independent life. Like to explore. As long can manage them selves, they are not suppose to be disturbed or annoyed.       But some woman since their teenage years being controlled , by the older ones in everything, they're dressing, hair, looks ,friends Circle.  Such girls always controlef in every step they take in life.          

          How the past was ,just forget. Focus in your wel being, your happiness. Your life your care. Stop being too good. Or you will be Victimized life long. Being kind to your self, love your self . Good human beings will keep away them saved frm the evil hearted or the selfish human beings. When human beings refer them selves as  Over blessed means very funny. The Vulture eating flesh of other Animals always feels blessed, because the non stop countless dramasn situations  it has created ,it never feels guilty, because A cruel animal  do no posses a heart to recall...      The best for good human beings  keep away frm, Vulture  Humans,  Because Vulture won't  see who you are, it just want to eat your flesh, no matter you are alive or dead. Cruel human beings are the Vulture...the best is keep away frm such Cruel Vultures in the frame of human beings. Such Cruel Vultures will keep on hunting it's Victim.life ...

      Heart aches Seeing Psychos handling certain families life long. Annually somehow ,must hv a feast of happenings in the family, Either a death,  medical treatment, a wedding  or prayers for the deceased. Aimless human beings, Education seems a waste on such human brings though ,the oarf ts hv given the highest education such Psychos can't bear to see the own siblings live happily or better than them...Create a life long depending life fir the younger  Siblings. Need attention n Care from younger Siblings lifelong ,hardly let the young ones  to think or function on their own.        When a Sick person leads the family, one by one , will fall sick , n sudden deaths are common. What else a sick person can yearn.       No.learning, no reading. Need too many helpers , easy life , easy money ,refuse to work. When, Culture ,Tradition family Norms n Values mis practiced by sick human beings, people around them can't live...

                 Truth is hardly revealed. whoever tells truth or practice being true , always become the target of certain groups. according to a lady she was used as a specimen to test her perseverance by her own siblings at very young age. she obeyed everything ordered by her older siblings. never oppose or go against their wish in her future, regarding her studies, even her wedding was arranged by her older siblings as they liked and she just accept everything positively, that she will venture into a new life with hope.      Her profession was something challenging and she was often given responsibilities which were always opposed or not accepted or agreed by other staff. she stood out among the working staff without any expectation of increment, promotion or incentive. she performed her duties so well as though she was born to serve.\. She had babies after married, out of the simple life she served her kids the best , qual...

       Others can do anything can  decide ones future or life but the younger one, need to find ways to manage own or family life. by being too good to the older siblings, life can be vv difficult, as time pass the younger sibling need to be cautious and distant own self away from the bullying, mocking selfish , heartless older ones who just expect and wait to victimize the naive younger Sibling.         Being absent and distancing self from those, means finding peace , self analyzing by being away from whoever trying to be funny with them or seek only fortune thru them or being very calculative.     Difficult times can be diverted or Convert into quality time, by being multi tasking individual.  While being buddy n Occupied, no way to recall or to find time to be with anyone to including those seeking / waiting to see your presence. As long learn to keep away frm uneasy emotions n situations, that's the best for the indiv...

       Having bigger number of choldren seems a choice ofr parents who grewup as single child or as a helpless child. wshen these single peple get married, they want  many children, so they wont feel lobnely and their children will have many brothers and sisters to refer. But always the other way round. As the kids grow and turned into adult hood. they focus to build them selves and not to focus to educate or to provide good education for the younger siblings. As long the younger ones schooling, they are being cared by the older siblings. but when the older ones started to build their life by getting married to their choice of life partner. their focus more on personal growth.      How to provide the best life for the girl or man whom they hv been married to. the younger ones needs and likes not bothered. The life of a refugee, this is what the younger ones strted to face in life.The younger ones stop schooling after high school and asked to find ...

     Home ones find home where they stay. Many dnt know or refuse to think About their family at the age of 16 n 17 being the phase in life completing high school. Leaving home n family ,parents, start new life living independent life.     Age 17 free.life, free to.live as they like. No family. Dnt hv anyone. Thus is what they say. The youths on streets. Pay they rental. Hv a temporary roof which accommodated them as they pay their rent. Food as how they can afford. Thru meet youths who share same life style with them, Nomads frm.other parts of the world , coming to the place which Majes them to feel good ,to escape the heat of summer. Universal hi e less youths get together at winter fest,which gives them so much happiness. Girls n boys , all youths , in winter walks many hours at night dressed in casual normal clothes.  Happy vibrant. Cheerful. Freedom to pursue sht thru like, very calm cool atmosphere..

   Psychos hurt anyone. They looked very tame n sound good n influvencial in  Society. They are not bothered about Excercise, self caring,     Own siblings they slaved , they dnt care who ever ,they dnt like, they dnt deserve to live. Own mother inlaw, own father, wife, or husband. They speak very sweetly...but they are dangerous. Own family members they house arrest. Fragile n elderly parents not allowed to meet out siders. Not allowed to socialize.      When in career, they are the best, no  can over take them . They do what ever they like in the office at working  place as they like. Countless of human beings they Victimiz. Humiliated in the presence of many staff, when being too helpfull or being  too good . The reason they hv not qualified them selves.

    Ignorant this is very common in people life especially in the lives of negative thinking people. A man who never ever read, havdjy reads , blindly listens to wrong people n damaged the happiness, life of people in his life. He treated his wife vv badly, hit her, humiliated her the the presence of his children.        He was paid back his deed thru d . Few of his sister's children going thru various life problems , his own sisters were going thru non stop  ,countless of health related issues   Non of the woman in his maternal side noticed as industrious . The younger girls were treated as maid's. They were  not guided, by the older girl about anything, education , family or to be independent. The over protected  and pampered girls died one by one in the hands  of  own older Siblings.        Psychos live in family  being an influencial.human being in society. Countless of innocent human beings hv...

     Two individuals. Both only completed Secoundry school. They both mistreat, humiliate and fight with their spouce everyday for no reason. This continued till the children were growing up n both joined University and college.       The wife neglected her duty as a mother, as a wife but was on her own without prepare food fur her children n husband. But daily starts a fight.. Her deed was seen on her younger brothers. Who hv been neglected by the own parents n uncle..     The woman's own younger brothers one by one leaving this world. 3 of them.left with out reason. Karma plays it's part. The husband who treated the wife like a queen, but the wives reaction was shown as hatred, fight, shout , scream n argued in the presence of her own children . This is not a healthy way of giving experience to anyone,  probably the lady do not posses reading habits or having good friends or guidance from her own Family members. Woman  when do not...

        Research Shares or exhibit that those who eat fresh vegetables and in various colors seems to possess healthy mood, good emotion and able to Control their feelings.work long hours without getting tired.      This Situation is easily seen among the community or individuals who live healthy life by eating fresh vegetables daily and less starchy meals. fresh and Colorful vegetables are rich of antioxidants and help the person who eat  to live healthy and happy life. less conflict , good life and good feelings.     The bright coloured fruits n vegetables are rich of antioxsidents. Eating these fruits n vegetables , helps to protect body n.dtrenthrns immune system. Various  decease  controlled thru eating such fruits n vegetables. Fruits n vegetables are rich of fibre and last longer when eat as breakfast , lunch or during dinner. Green means protect those who est these

          Indochina  once went thru countless of eras and faces unnumbered unpredictable traumas and situations almost 50 years ago. Today  though live simple life and healthy life style, enegetic and healthy people are these indochina community. when we study the culture of these nations which has adapted indo and chinese roots in their daily life, the people who live in these countries seems the very hard workinmg , strong and happy people despite the climate, monsoon season , with drought, heavy rain fall, still this environemnt has made these people stronger and healthier. very difficulkt to see any sick people or fragile moving around. hardly could spot any sic or helpless. Religion is very strong in Indo chinese communities, every where temples are spread, eoither in rural  or at urban places. Nature seems to be part pf these Indochinese people.         Lotus flower is every where as deco or as herbal nutrient. lotru...

    Planting trees every where can ease the heat problem n can get rid of Heat. No matter the type of Soil n climate, Global Warning, can be healed or helped by planting  trees in the environment. Mother earth only help her Occupants on her by supporting activities related to Nature..       The reason for extreme heat at certain countries or places are , chopping down trees n deforestation..  Green plants cool this earth, especially Palm family trees. Coconut, date trees , Sago, Oil palm, nipah. Such palm trees not only cools the earth, but gives fruits , seeds, fibre aboundantly.. farmers and Citizens who applied the culture of Planting trees. Contribute to the mother, earth, family , Country and to human beings nt beings n living things in many ways. Eco system improves, family economy improves, food is available always ,life style of those who grows palm trees, improves economically, poverty no more.    Trees helps the human n also mother ...

    Recall my younger days, life was too simple, no luxury, no lavish life style. But live in mids of nature. Pure life, eat wht is available in the garden. Age 14 onward life was changed,form pampered to responsibility's laid on my shoulder age 14. Eldest sister married. I started to replace my sister's place but I was still playful, climbing guava tree in school uniform .      As long all were single n young, too much care , concern showered . As 1 by 1 got married         I noticed a difference, one by one try to be selfish, focusing to better them selves, n their family.           The newcomer or new family member being the focus of all n everyone. The girl who being more like a slave doing everything, taking care of her neices n nephew n mom, not bothered even by own sisters, those who were caring, loving . Now neglected her,same with the brother with his better half. When I realize,  Being isolated n n...

      First the Doer, the positive Vibe. This person do not waste time. How ever busy find time to excercise, control his words / Tongue. Thinks wht he suppose to utter or say.      The Second type is Dependent.. never or hardly excercise. Selfish. Not able to control his finances. Simply blah blah blah. Just Vomit his words, never feel guilty for using bad words.         Unable to analyze, unable to identify good or bad human beings, simply trust people.  Waste his time for Others, but not willing to help or assist the person who surrendered to him lifelong..        Thinks only food is everything to be good to anyone. Food being the bridge to glue him with others. everyone treated well. But the one married him gets all the hatred. Never feel guilty or Sorry for mistreating the woman who married him. Using Vulgar words like Chewing gum...

 Fatherless n mother helpless,  means  a very pityful  Situation. Situation turn worst when too much responsibility, laid  on a younger girls shoulder. No one to assist, to help or to perform daily task .

       When blinded by too much affection and care. Some young ones, always ignore the bad n worst character of their loved ones.When the aged n fragile old one waiting n counting her days  , her belongings  share with their loved ones, it's her right to give whom she wants to give.Unless if the Old one touches or takes other people's belongings means it's an offence .This is not suppose to make it as an issue  if anyone giveaway their things to their family members      There is nothing to make it an issue,when life is too good, unable to enjoy the good life , but searching for  bad ,out of nothing from the old ,fragile person .        Pity helpless mother inlaw, lost her since, emotions, hate by daughter in-law. Never take this old woman anywhere. House arrest, left alone, this is the fate of old people living life long with their Children...

     Great lesson being given by those trusted life long n surrendered life long in the name of family, sibling. Yes ...certain amount of money being charged informally for the great lesson, at different phases in life.      As. Long being faithful n.trysting them , ready to be charged at different times different amounts in the name of contribution, share, Donation, fund...

    Believe it or not , this is still happening in many youngsters life, those who hv lost their parents and  some who still hv their parents, purposely, marrying off  healthy, hard working , educated, working girl, into family of Complicated human beings known as family members, the younger ones Concern and approval not bothered and not given a thought , even though the younger siblings not infavour of involve in marriage.       Siblings arrange such Situations for the younger ones. Who let the Older Siblings, Find life partner for her,  life suppose to be joyful, but turned out misery life long. Unpredictable situations happens,  anything will happen anytime..     The outcome frm their attitude of being v selective of the family the younger one going to get married n settle.. nightmare on n off. Too many sleepless nights.. waiting till early morning for the husband to be back home.Not one or two hurdles, but Countless of...

        When it comes to education, future, life, independence, rights., youngsters or those above age 21 treated like kids by the authoritative  Older Siblings. Whatever the older Siblings decides or choose, must be Obeyed by the younger Siblings. Likes and hates not given consideration at all. Only the older Siblings has the right to fix the younger ones future, whether they like it or not but must follow the older ones wish                This situation not only in marriage, but in every aspect, frm clothing's, education, food, interest , life everything decided by the older ones...So the younger ones without any choice given in life, accept the chance just to leave the family n to go far away frm them Completely...     School life and books being good support to heal the young ones misery of being fatherless,other than God ...

         Surprising  but, shockingly , some look very calm , well mannered sweet talking, when it comes to making decisions in younger ones, life the older ones behaves as though they are Dictators . They decide n the young ones need to follow and nod their head. Other wise Countless of dramas will be taking place, one older sister , knowing that her youngest sister has an admirer n wish to get married to her.        Knowing this that sister hurry burily fixed her younger sisters marriage with her Cousin, but told the whole family that the cousin was in love with her n intend to get married to her .   Another incident, another family the younger one was opposing n refuse to get marry to who ever approached her. Her older siblings without her concern, arranged her marriage , which was a trap, for them to hold her life long in their fist with their choice of life partner , who hardly bother, or hv respect for his wife. The only thing ...

     Very long I have been exposed to various types of human beings those came from different family background and behave unpredictably. From age 11 untill 17 my home was the same. After 17 till age 20 various situations, environment, home and lots and lots of travelling from here and there following older siblings, stay in their house, then started my job at age 20 and again travelling alot and 3 to 4 hours of sleep. By age 26. I have met 1000 s of human beings thru primary secondary school friends , class mates, relatives, thru profession, thru countless of close relatives and the new comers family members. at the college i was pursuing my studies, at THE SCHOOLS I HV BEEN SERVING . married LIFE WAS A TURNING POINT IN MY LIFE TO MEET  TOTALLY DIFFERENT HUMAN BEINGS. THOSE HARDLY MOVED AROUND EVEN THOUGH THEY HAD STUDIED TILL FORM 6 IN PRIVATE AND GOVENRMENT SCHOOL, those STAYED IN HOSTEL WERE TOTALLY DIFFERENT.             Shocki...

                                  MY CHILD HOOD HOUSE, HAS   ACCOMMODATED COUNTLESS OF HUMANS AS GUEST AND TEMPORARY HOME FOR MANY SCHOOL GOING RELATIVES N CLOSE FAMILIY S CHILDREN. since MY FATHERSDAYS TILL WE SHIFT FRM THAT HOUSE, THIS HOUSE HAS FED COUNTLESS OF HUMAN BEINGS , AND HAS HELPED  VARIOUS  KNOWN PEOPLE RELATIVES TO STAY AND TO HAVE MEALS.       MY SCHOOL FRIENDS, MY BROTHERS  and Sisters FRIENDS , HV BEEN FREQUENT VISITORS to our kg house. the house where most of my primary school friends used to visit , join me during meals, the house my sisters hv been industrious and were doing several jobs to get money to ful fill our needs.        year 1974, the following year both of my sisters started to find part time n full time jobs to support our daily needs. 3 boys and two girls, we 5 of us being fed by our eldest n 2 nd sist...

 .Sun rays , fresh Air, Nature , Sunset , Sun rise and morning Breeze, ALL THESE ARE FREE BUT NOT MANY APPRECIATE OR MAKE USE OF THESE.GIFTS FRM nature.            EVERYONE WANTS GLAMOIUR, SOUND, noise AND ARTIFICIAL N ELECTRIC LIGHTS, which attracts them. HARDLY PEOPLE GIVE PREPARANCE  FOR NATURE AND NATURES GIFTS. tHE EARLY SUNRAYS ARE SO FRESH AND CURES ANY DECEASE.THOSE WHO Wakesup early morning gets the best . Those who spend time in nature hardly faces any misfortunes or health problems.

      Human beings raised in extended families observe and practice what they hv been seeing , watching and expereincing frm the family memebers. The good , bads, habits , acts , behaviours hv been observed and practiced through out life or bat certain level in life , untill that person nget chance to live alone or far away from thoese who hv given them the expereince. when people want everythingb easier, such situation create uneasy situation for people. Whenjh an ordinary human being achived ceratin level of achivement thru life long serving,  the same life level the younger generatioon tend to get it thru countless of debt, at very young age. all these uneasy situations created just by those selfish hum,an beinhgghs wants everything easily and early in life.              The simple simple they suppose to live , they want luxury things and lixury items which make them dbters life long. These young people should obsereve and ,ingle...

                                                                                                          B aby Shower   THE PURPOSE OF PERFORMING THIS FUNCTION  IS TO ENSURE THE MOTHER AND BABY  BEING SAFE DURING AND AFTER THE BIRTH..             Various types and taste of rice prepared using natural herbs, spices and variety of flavours. Milaghu satham, coconut satham, mint satham, yogurt Satham, sweet rice using karupatti, seeragha satham, inji satham. All the ingredients used in preparation of these Various rice utmost purpose is to ensure safe and easy delivery and easy constipation for the mother. othernthan this the baby gets to taste variou...

               My childhood days were filled with eating and tasting home  grown fruits and veggies. Tapioca and corn are the two crops we  had in bigger plots in the farm. Tapioca needs at least 8 to 10  months to have the roots formed as food. I love to taste the tapioca  and corn my own way since I was 10 years old in the farm itself.  Tapioca was grown beside corn and both were getting  ready to be  harvested, around 8 th month of  tapioca, I pulled those roots which  were young and tender and make fire using the dried tapioca leaves    and started to roast the tapioca without  peeling the skin.                While the tapioca was cooking, I collected few corns from the  crop and roasted in the fire the whole corn until the outer layers all  burnt but the inside grains were...