Exploration 2

       It's a blessing when hv too many loving , caring hearts around. But friends seems the important ones. Hardly stay in the house, just outside. Learnt stitching n sewing skirts,shirts and toys frm cloth materials and waste material..

       One by one the older ones leaving the house in the name of better job n permanent job n away frm home n stayed there. When Sisters  married that was  strong  bond between her n her mom. The only soul wondered n cared alot about her mom's commitment..

     Till age 12 hv covered n explored almost her village town , n her surrounding , feilds, neghbours who hv shifted far away frm her house almost 4 to 5 km. Father's Aunt, relatives grandma. Visited n stayed with her. Something beautiful about this grandma, her vegetable garden all authenthic  root vegetables, rgg plants ,spinach ,Sour Spinach ,moringa all hv Bern grown in this grandmas vegetable garden.This grabsba was eating only wht she had grown.her house is a 6 houses in a row, she gavev5 house for rental n stayed in 1 house . Several times I hv Bern visiting her due to her visit to my home after dad's death.

    .I used to clean the yard , seerp the dried leaves burn the garbage . Mop grandmas house.   2nd sister was working in a plantation endedt sister wS taking care of me ,mom n younger sister while two more brothers were still studying n one was attach to a mechanic shop after completing Secoundry school, didn't show interest to pursue Studies. 

    .staying with eldest sister was really good feeling get chance to visit my relatives, school , grandmas house, cycle to River bank which is almost 4.km frm my house 1 way sitting at the river bnk with my class mate n tasting ice cream at times we go for ice kacang. 


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