As I see It

     Great lesson being given by those trusted life long n surrendered life long in the name of family, sibling. Yes ...certain amount of money being charged informally for the great lesson, at different phases in life.      As. Long being faithful n.trysting them , ready to be charged at different times different amounts in the name of contribution, share, Donation, fund...

    Believe it or not , this is still happening in many youngsters life, those who hv lost their parents and  some who still hv their parents, purposely, marrying off  healthy, hard working , educated, working girl, into family of Complicated human beings known as family members, the younger ones Concern and approval not bothered and not given a thought , even though the younger siblings not infavour of involve in marriage.       Siblings arrange such Situations for the younger ones. Who let the Older Siblings, Find life partner for her,  life suppose to be joyful, but turned out misery life long. Unpredictable situations happens,  anything will happen anytime..     The outcome frm their attitude of being v selective of the family the younger one going to get married n settle.. nightmare on n off. Too many sleepless nights.. waiting till early morning for the husband to be back home.Not one or two hurdles, but Countless of...

        When it comes to education, future, life, independence, rights., youngsters or those above age 21 treated like kids by the authoritative  Older Siblings. Whatever the older Siblings decides or choose, must be Obeyed by the younger Siblings. Likes and hates not given consideration at all. Only the older Siblings has the right to fix the younger ones future, whether they like it or not but must follow the older ones wish                This situation not only in marriage, but in every aspect, frm clothing's, education, food, interest , life everything decided by the older ones...So the younger ones without any choice given in life, accept the chance just to leave the family n to go far away frm them Completely...     School life and books being good support to heal the young ones misery of being fatherless,other than God ...

         Surprising  but, shockingly , some look very calm , well mannered sweet talking, when it comes to making decisions in younger ones, life the older ones behaves as though they are Dictators . They decide n the young ones need to follow and nod their head. Other wise Countless of dramas will be taking place, one older sister , knowing that her youngest sister has an admirer n wish to get married to her.        Knowing this that sister hurry burily fixed her younger sisters marriage with her Cousin, but told the whole family that the cousin was in love with her n intend to get married to her .   Another incident, another family the younger one was opposing n refuse to get marry to who ever approached her. Her older siblings without her concern, arranged her marriage , which was a trap, for them to hold her life long in their fist with their choice of life partner , who hardly bother, or hv respect for his wife. The only thing ...