Families without parents

        When it comes to education, future, life, independence, rights., youngsters or those above age 21 treated like kids by the authoritative  Older Siblings. Whatever the older Siblings decides or choose, must be Obeyed by the younger Siblings. Likes and hates not given consideration at all. Only the older Siblings has the right to fix the younger ones future, whether they like it or not but must follow the older ones wish 

              This situation not only in marriage, but in every aspect, frm clothing's, education, food, interest , life everything decided by the older ones...So the younger ones without any choice given in life, accept the chance just to leave the family n to go far away frm them Completely...

    School life and books being good support to heal the young ones misery of being fatherless,other than God ...

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