Purposely / ARRANGED marriage

    Believe it or not , this is still happening in many youngsters life, those who hv lost their parents and  some who still hv their parents, purposely, marrying off  healthy, hard working , educated, working girl, into family of Complicated human beings known as family members, the younger ones Concern and approval not bothered and not given a thought , even though the younger siblings not infavour of involve in marriage. 

     Siblings arrange such Situations for the younger ones. Who let the Older Siblings, Find life partner for her,  life suppose to be joyful, but turned out misery life long. Unpredictable situations happens,  anything will happen anytime.. 

   The outcome frm their attitude of being v selective of the family the younger one going to get married n settle.. nightmare on n off. Too many sleepless nights.. waiting till early morning for the husband to be back home.Not one or two hurdles, but Countless of misfortunes , misseries faced by this poor younger sibling just for being a loyal younger Sibling to her older siblings. The loss in her life uncountable.Loss of peace, lack of sleep, hours n hours of waiting fur her husband to returned home. Too much faith n.love for her Siblings has caused her to loss her Pre Uni class, for being too good to her Siblings n blindly follow their orders of reaching a day earlier the reunion spot, which caused her Friday afternoon and Saturday morning classes , unable to attend, which caused the supervisor to take away those classes n she was given lower form classes..which has stopped her frm being promoted every 5 years. 

        During the gatherings, ladies were outing by leaving their children, n one stupid younger sister was made the nanny to look after all the kids till they returned without getting or asking her Concern. Such human beings misuse the meaning of family , siblings love fur their own benefit., being too loyal n caring , most of the time misused by many for their own benefit without thinking the outcome or loss  trust of the  younger siblings.

   

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