Shocking Truth ..

         Surprising  but, shockingly , some look very calm , well mannered sweet talking, when it comes to making decisions in younger ones, life the older ones behaves as though they are Dictators . They decide n the young ones need to follow and nod their head. Other wise Countless of dramas will be taking place, one older sister , knowing that her youngest sister has an admirer n wish to get married to her. 

      Knowing this that sister hurry burily fixed her younger sisters marriage with her Cousin, but told the whole family that the cousin was in love with her n intend to get married to her .

  Another incident, another family the younger one was opposing n refuse to get marry to who ever approached her. Her older siblings without her concern, arranged her marriage , which was a trap, for them to hold her life long in their fist with their choice of life partner , who hardly bother, or hv respect for his wife. The only thing he has been giving her life long other than getting food n clothes is humiliation non stop n for no reason. A slavery life, frm waking up in the morning till going to sleep. Life long she is living a slavery life in the name of marriage.

   Usually girls will be married off to.live the life,but in certain families , Such girls being made life long slaves by their siblings, by their husband ,n by their husbands  family. Surprisingly, Educated girls/ women hv been treated in to such.life as slaves first by their own siblings, later by the family they hv been.married to. The worst is by their husband in the name of marriage , culture , family values , Society..

      So in such cases, life, peace of mind seems important , and society n social means nothing ...

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