As I see It

         Something really shocking about certain rural place people especially the rural mothers. These women seemed to be lower secondary school dropouts, not competent even in their mother tongue. Not good at taking care of their young ones, especially they lack basic skills in parenting. Preparing the suitable or healthy food and to equip their kids and themselves in basic healthy activities. They seemed not exposed to any healthy and benefitting activities. These women are full time home makers. Hardly teach or guide their kids in school studies or in home work.        Due to being naive, they lack the basic rules of communication. They seemed to be the worst communicators. They are not capable of moulding or being a good role models to the babies they bore. Their kids seemed to be rude arrogant and hardly shows interest in studies but misinterpret the message. Conveying something that has not said. The mother being eas...

                              Something really shocking about certain rural place people especially the rural mothers. These women seemed to be lower secondary school dropouts, not competent even in their mother tongue. Not good at taking care of their young ones, especially they lack basic skills in child bringing up. Preparing the suitable or healthy food and to equip their kids and themselves in basic healthy activities. Seemed not exposed to any healthy and benefit ting activities. These women are full time   home makers. Hardly teach or guide their kids in school studies or in home work.      Due to being naive, they lack the basic rules of communication. They seemed to be the worst communicators. They are not capable of molding or being a good role models to the babies they bore. Their kids seemed to be rud...

                 The  wor d which I really hate in my life is ' waiting'. many times and at many situations, I have waited for others regardless of hours, by neglecting my duty and family.All those years only siblings and their family members seemed part of my life for many years. I waited  long hours for bus, train, or  to be fetched by family members. And the worst part is when travel to India and when travel by train to other states. at times two days and 3 days just wasted waiting for the train which will take us to certain destination, so at odd hours , with out left for choice, we decided to put up at the railway station dorm, which is considered very safe.     While waiting for the train which will arrive, the following day, myself and my daughter decided to go for sight seeing, un believably, there were bookshops ...

   Earlier day kids dream for their future, but present day parents dream for their children. Parents in present day world, expect the kids to fulfill their un achieved dreams by telling the kids they they should   become doctors , engineers,lawyers, what ever they have not achieved in their life.  The kids also fulfill their parents dreams by achieving the parents wishes. But in  later life what they do was, choose their partners as they wish and live a life as they like, many of the parents were sent to old folk homes or left on their own. Some children even migrate to other countries, such situations created by their parents who spoon feed their  children , assuming they are doing the best for them.     One mistake the parents hardly realize is, that the child who learns on his or her own grow as a balanced individual, who is capable of identifying the good and bad and able to balance his or her life. Due to less exposure given or crea...