Parents and their dreams for their kids

   Earlier day kids dream for their future, but present day parents dream for their children. Parents in present day world, expect the kids to fulfill their un achieved dreams by telling the kids they they should   become doctors , engineers,lawyers, what ever they have not achieved in their life.  The kids also fulfill their parents dreams by achieving the parents wishes. But in  later life what they do was, choose their partners as they wish and live a life as they like, many of the parents were sent to old folk homes or left on their own. Some children even migrate to other countries, such situations created by their parents who spoon feed their  children , assuming they are doing the best for them.

    One mistake the parents hardly realize is, that the child who learns on his or her own grow as a balanced individual, who is capable of identifying the good and bad and able to balance his or her life. Due to less exposure given or created by the parents for their kids, such kids tend to imitate and follow their parents in  many ways and make decisions in life hurriedly without  giving a thought about it.

     Actually the parents are the ones who created such situations for them by over protecting them and make thier life much easier by providing all the best in life. Several mothers whom I met proudly told me that the busness that they had started for the future of their grandchildren, as far as i know, non of her kids were