As I see It

     Being 1 st child getting all the best  frm everyone  including  studying in high school.. though not qualified to study in government School.      Father managed to push the first n 2 nd child in to Govement Sector. No difference in family, spend lavishly like born into wealthier .  all the earnings spent on clothing n makeup, own Siblings neglected, unable to guide or motivate them,instead make them Scape goats. The younger ones used as a bait to get everything from only brother.      A brother who was not bothered at all by her ,Started to give attention n seek attention , thousand lies n stories just  to get money frm brother, n spend as she liked.     .Brothers family life, sisters marriage all ruined by this monster. Eat expensive food. Left the children with Younger siblings whom hv made Scape goat n to be her Slave . Sent youngest Sister to Mental asylum after used her two years salary all by her...

   The worst experience given n created by the heartless 2 nd sister was choosing strangers, as husband's n.married off the girls to unknown people . The girls were not given  chance to  meet or to know the person they will be marryingl    Both of these two younger girls posses O level qualifications n can persue A level or Preuni at Government Higher Secoundry schools with out paying fees . But one needs a heart  n ability to think  for  younger ones future n wishes .   This is the fate of young siblings growing up without a father n with a sick n helpless mother. A Dictator dnt posses  such  nature..The girjs beggings , cries not bothered by older ones, When younger Siblings being too naive ,hardly talks bck, or talks softly, older ones make decisions by them selves..  God is  great, the father n mother in the form of Gods, protected these younger girls who were spending most of their time with their father n mother...

      The two older sisters played the role of a mother to the younger girls, untill they have their own family. Gere started the trouble, whennyvingnown family, their nature changed, but their generous never changed.         Deepavali even after married the sister's Celebrated with the younger siblings n their mom. Various cookies ,delicacies were prepared n shared with visitors who visit  their house. The younger sisters class n school  friends were ,attending the Depavalli Celebration.       Those were the special years as a student in her life...Nice dresses they were getting for the younger girls whom they treated like Princess ,that was untill they hv their own babies.        However good the younger sisters,nthe younger girls were like a burden to the older sisters when squating with them thiugh monthly certain amount was settled by the brothers fur foid n accommodation fur all of them.   ...

       The two older girls n the  siblings  were being the main people who decide.whatbthe yiubger girjs need to go thru. Two youngest girls were forced to stay with the older sister n  they were just like refugees. Feelings Emotions not bothered, they were indurectly forced by older sisters thru close relatives to find job n asked to live independent life with their earnings.           The eldest found a job n when she started earning, her income was controlled by the 2 nd sister. Saying she will manage her finance.dresses ,sarees were both n stitched by that sister as she likes n not  how the younger ones wants.         A girl who was infused ,.motivated bunger School Teachers, adored by the Teachers, targeted as ugly not good at  pursuing or following orders or completing task,bthis was the comments the 2 nd older sister giving nmshsrung with whomever gives good Compliment baby the younger ...

    The 2 nd son being the main person deciding everything for his siblings. Forced to stop schooling when he was a good student, thisvrage never stop him from not learning. He hardly talksbtonhus younger siblings but only deals with his older sisters. Monthly he contribute certain amount to the main people though they hv been.married n live with their husbands happily. He had guilty feeling towards the eldest sister whom he married off to an estate worker.Rhw decision maker was the girl fur her sisters marriage just because she was the only one highly educated among the older siblings .     Here the Hitler started to playb his role in the frame of 2nd older sister...Same with the younger siblings were not given chance to go for higher studies or to pursue any courses .Fatherless young ones life is not a good one. It's a refugees life,sqysting with older siblings ,follow them where ever they go or shift theur6 home..      Unpredictable life. The inkynf...

    A simple example. A family lost the head n it was managed by older children. 1 eldest child was playfull.n.did not realize the burden.of father towards the family .      Too.many children n parents attention on younger children. The father was showing his love thru getting things furbthebrkdest child, such as bicycle when he was in standard 6.       This boy hardly gets the parents attention so he started to explore other states n districts on his bicycle. Almost several days. The father was scared seeing the eldest child missing n started asking neighbours school friends and his police friends. Some how managed to traced him at the northern.part of Malaysia. He was brought home. Again he left home in two years while in form 2. Seeing him eager to travel.n.explore his father bought him, a motor bike. Again fur the 2 nd time he was missing on his bike. The reason this young man was leaving his house,on n off. The father's job was on call. ...

    People who made you feel inferior, people who made you feel ugly, people who wants you to be away from them, People who never give you a Chance, People who refuse to listen to your  begging, People who being a reason fur the worst feelings , People who being a reason for your loss, Anyone ,whoever being a reason fur you to keep your self away.from them.          Who ever being a block fir anything that you like, People who hv made you a fool life long. People who ever don't wish to see you happy, who ever refuse to give your freedom.        Such people, not worth to recall, to visit or to keep in your heart. Just accept n think only the good things they hv donenfor you. The good food ,the good time, nice dress, good childhood. Just live with everything good in your heart.     whtever people robed frm you, people take from you, just forget those, n forget those People...Visiting home town , one must hv Good me...

            Kids as they grow up, their surrounding infuse their interest n hobbies. School seems the most important in. Child , teenagers life. Learning from their environment, friends,family , school, Teachers seems important, hut after high school, Youth's being dumped into  which are not their taste or choice ,same with  the choice of profession.          Some youth's guvenfreefom to choose the job or course they like . But in early 20ies parents or Siblings force youth's to get married. Some too good , and being bullied or controlled by their parents. Decisions in life matters.nitbgivem chance to those who live under shelter of older siblings in the absence of parents.         Older siblings who hardly gets exposure of family environment, give power to the older family  member, to decide the younger educated n working siblings life matters...Very funny isn't it, the younger ones, not given cha...

        This world is only for the strong ones , to live, to survive.To work hard, to earn n to live as they like.

      Life is too short to entertain others , some life long served , lived and worjd hard to be a good family member,sister ,mother. At working place,dedicated worker / staff. But people just take things for granted when being too good, too kind n trying to please the family members .         Caring younger sibling, or soft hearted siblings used as a Scape goat, to get get everything or whatever these siblings posses.       Slaves created for them selves. Shockingly, very good young siblings are dominated n guided wrongly by siblings who are not sure of what they hv been sharing, blindly guide the younger ones until the younger one who suppose to do well  be a victim of stupid , dominating older ones who being busybody n make the younger ones life miserable n cause severe damage. The younger ones goidbin studies unable to pursue their dream or higher studies,due to the highly ambitious n selfish older siblings who were pampered by ...