The world expects only big n returns the trash .

    A simple example. A family lost the head n it was managed by older children. 1 eldest child was playfull.n.did not realize the burden.of father towards the family .

     Too.many children n parents attention on younger children. The father was showing his love thru getting things furbthebrkdest child, such as bicycle when he was in standard 6. 

     This boy hardly gets the parents attention so he started to explore other states n districts on his bicycle. Almost several days. The father was scared seeing the eldest child missing n started asking neighbours school friends and his police friends. Some how managed to traced him at the northern.part of Malaysia. He was brought home. Again he left home in two years while in form 2. Seeing him eager to travel.n.explore his father bought him, a motor bike. Again fur the 2 nd time he was missing on his bike. The reason this young man was leaving his house,on n off. The father's job was on call. Long hours wasted on his profession to feed his 9 kids,mpaybtheurvdvjool fees , support his brother inlaws adopted childrens school fees,supported another relatives teenage daughters school fee. He was taking care of 12 youngn people . 3 outsiders. 

       His 2nd Son was forced to stop schooling though he was good in studies to support the family. This Son st age 14bwas squating in other families house n worked as a office boy.

         At Age 10b this father stopped his daughters schooling to take care of his younger children..Two children were burdened with older people's responsibilities to support n to help around. 

 Another girl by 3brd was the only gurls given choicebyonstudybhigher secoundry. She was good in studies by play full n failed BM paiwr ,n she couldn't get a full cert ,but only GCE. The 3 older siblings  were ma shung the younger ones life n schooling . When the older girls were in their early 20 ies. The 2 nd biy arrange theyr weddings in the absence of the father. Though 2 younger girls aged 10 n 14.

     The mind set of this young man staying in lower middle class familyWhose mind set , guehs not suppose to stay in the house, as they getting aged . So the eldest sister was married off to a Man who was born ,bred n education was only standard 6 lives alone .the following year that duster had twin babies n those babies were given to suck mother nmyiungervsister who was only aged 15 to take care 1 of the babies. The sajevtearvebd another duster who was only 24 MN married off to her love,nwho was her tuition master n next door neighbour, whom the girl was in.lovevsince age 14.

      

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