People very difficult to understand

       A girl was given only 3 months to agree and to say Yes to the decision of her older siblings regarding her life matters. Though thisbgurl begged, cried n ask for longer time. The older Siblings were not willing to support the girls education or interest. Living in the absence of her dead father n sick mother who was getting her husband's pension.All her Dons n older children were away frm home . 2 daughters married the boys all schooling n the younger daughters were studying. 

      .mother n the girjs with 1 brother n 2 niec were taken care by the married sister, whose house was a hostel which accommodate the young sisters , two working adults n 2 more relatives children. The duster n her husband were pd monthly buy those who hv been squating in their house. 

     All of a sudden the sister was burdened with responsibilities of cooking,taking care of home n handling the school going girls.

   Extremely stressed she was unable to talk or hv time with anyone ,either to listen or to advice. Over stressed with all the work of hostel home, or home stay, which she handled everything all by her self with the advice of her brother who arranged n suggested this homestay so she could, get extra incine monthly base.

Frm a caring sister, she turned as a heartmesd human being , who harfjt let the girls talk  or ,sit in front in the living room or to hv friends. 

     The hardworking n studious sister was.furced indurectly  thru relatives , to find a job , though her result was accepted  to pursue pre uni in the same  school with out paying fees.

     When she started working temporarily, very bsdjy she wants her sister to get married , even the duster was match mahke with a jobless man n they fixed that man without her Concent .Luckily she approached the family n stopped them frm involving her in the marriage. Told the family she doesn't want to get married.

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