The blessed fatherless kids

 

        Blessed this term can be interrupted in multiple ways. People growing up  in the presence of parents and get to live normal  childhood and those without father but still lives the ordinary child hood, these are the blessed Children. My self and my other Siblings belongs into this Normal growing up Childhood during my dads presence and after his death.

      Growing up in Village going thru all the basic village life , by involving in farm related life, playing outdoor games with neighbor's children. catching grass hoppers, trapping birds, catch squirrels skinned and roast  squirrels and bats in fire made outside the house . Daily complete 3 meals and evening snacks prepared by older sisters is a blessing , until finishing secondary school. never ever experience hunger, every meal prepared carefully by full time care taker, eldest sister, who has made full time nanny and house keeper since age 10 by father. A good student loves to learn and attend school but father stopped her schooling seeing mother  sick and unable to take care of the younger children. 

    Eldest sister and 2 nd sister played the role of full time mothers by getting clothes, stitched clothes for younger sisters, always prepared good healthy meals  for all the family members. All these deeds by these older sisters sacrifice is a blessing to younger siblings to live cool life no worries about anything, nothing to worry, so all the younger siblings were good in studies and showed good performance. After seeing other friends coming from families with parents but did not wear tidy uniforms, head full of flea, scratching here and there, hair not combed properly, all these what seen from others seems and make the younger siblings to feel blessed and grateful to the older sisters sacrifice , dedication , commitments. It takes whole life , and many decades for these youngsters to recall or to think the sacrifice of the older siblings who prepared quality fresh meals everyday for the younger siblings who hardly or never get sick or admitted in hospital  for fever .

     Some might think and say they are blessed living with parents life long, living easy life long some might think as long close relatives and known people giving them or providing their needs and meals always is a blessing. No not really. the blessed human being is a fully nurtured human being by experienced family members who hv moulded these younger ones as an independent   human being. The education one receives if helps an individual to live , work and support themselves and their family such as their children and  live a life without relying on others, That's a blessed life. Being an independent human being , work earn and eat with their earnings , thats a blessed  life. Living lazy life without discipline and don't know what is discipline means Obes life and wasted life, burden to this world burden to the nation burden to the society