As I see It

          The Chefs duty is multiple.  duites are watching Tv and only watching Tv when not driving. Earlier he was gambling for hours and hours. He could sit and watch or lie down and watch movies for hours and hours without meals and drinks. This Chief was found by a cook who thinks him self as saver of a Family left by his deceased father when he was only 18 years old. This cook has an older brpther who didnot realize what was going on in the family, because his father never explained or never tell him about his responsibility for those younger siblings who are still schooling.        The cooks two sisters were taking charge of the family full time in the presence of sick mother while younger brothers and younger sisters were still schooling. The cook and his sister another cook eing the decision makers of fate n future life of the younger siblings. Their uterances were just like commandments

           An ugly duckling, late bloomer, unable to groom or to be stylish or to apply makeup. Those in her profession, those who hv known her , those who are close family friends. Those whom she has known thru religious programs she attended. All those admirers are much better in life standard , education, profession and in life standard. This ugly duckling was v unlucky after age 16, because after she went thru her lower school certificate, her older siblings started to show more care n concern o her due to her result in lower secoundry exam which they never think, she will perform much better than all her childhood friends.Her two brother, those above her, search their freinds who hv completed their form 5 n got their books n gave this ugly duckling n asked her to study all those books. First time this ugly duckling using reference books and started reading n writing notes , earlier she followed the school text books only reading those books  and p...

        Too many places on Earth hv been highlighted as wonders of the world. Too many made by man.     Least travelled places hv not been included in this list. how amazing mans ability , skills , strength, in   at certain places only stones and boulders hv been shaped into huge blocks and used in buildings.                            Stones have been arranged on top of other stones and very old towns as early as 1000 years old with the oldest buildings  which still stands very strong. only buildings such as church, homes , offices, shops , hv been built and  still  stands very strong without damage.   The secret is the very thick amost 1 meter length or more than that , stones hv been arranged and formed as buildings. shockingly more than thousand years ago the men would hv been much bigger and stronger and able to lift such heavy block ...

                   Parents, Siblings, family , Childhood, Experiences, all these are something precious in every ones life. Family, Siblings love, are precious. When being Committed and devoted to family , or siblings , youngsters being treated , very strictly without giving any phase or  chance.        Every one knows what their heart yearns. same with likes, emotions, feelings. too much care n too much concern kills the youngsters spirit and ability. as long siblings are single and not committed, they  think they are the God to their younger siblings in the parents absence. But the truth is some how they hv been going thru severe stress when  being in charge of the young siblings. this situation cause the older ones to e very strict n close minded.        Too much care and too much conservative means , a dangerous zone  for the innocencent younger ones. Arrange marriage, ...

      When sew a seed, the seed either shoots  or dies . Good seeds shoots,comes our of earth ,started hving leaves n grow as healthy crop. Same with human babies. Parents who nurture, practice ,shares , expose good norms, values, Simple living wats, appreciating every.littke things , feeling thankfully fur every little things are all blessings fur a healthy ,true life.        Out of simple life,parents keep on giving responsibilities to their young children, make them  appreciate simple meals ,plant based meals, Consist of beans, lentils,consume in their daily life , make these young people more tolarant, understanding, always being calm ,more energetic, work.longer hours..    Parents who engage their kids with responsibilities since young, can notice behavioral changes while they are growing up.      Such youngsters with heavy responsibilities , hardly find girl friends or boy friends or spend time with others. Thes...

      Traveling gives one, multiple experiences about human beings, their emotions, feelings, Character. Seeing the real world of various human beings from different parts of the world.      Several parts of the world poverty , misery , malnutrition, different ways of living life, raising kids, creating environments ,seems various from 1 nation to another..         Human beings whoever went thru hardship n were raised by responsible n caring older people, tend to be the savers of this world . Empathetic, Caring ,nurturing n being a creator of new opportunities, new life,new path  to our fellow human beings.             As long human being started to spread only the good , wherever they go ,share only the positive n healing methods with whoever they can, This world can be changed into a happy peaceful, healthy ,Safer world. , sow seeds in trays, sprinkle daily ,waste containers recycle as seed growi...

      First time seeing ,n reading the names of places in Turkey, something interesting. Everyone  knows this country is located in between  Europe n middle east.        The surprising truth is the names of certain places sounds familiar in a different language n shares . When I was reading for several times ,I realized some family words sound like these places I hv come across..        Adiyaman, Magarasi, Kuzhi Kulle all these were hv been, used in another language. Surprisingly these are the names.or places of tourist interest in Turkey.

     Cooks job only Cooking if they Make or perform their task. But those with cooking skills n too many of them choose 1 meal n started to cook 1 meal by all of them         The food becomes a waste, same with decisions, future plans  abd life matters. If certain individuals ,control their life by not giving priority to others, their life will be smooth n pleasant n good to live. when  3rd party given importance Disaster started to hunt the naive ,innocent human who hv bern.too good to those in.his life since young....     Never give your life or life decision, future to others..You will be a Cartoon in their life. Whoever brings their Army to visit you. Dnt give permission and dnt entertain them.Keep these groups far away from.your life, fur your own peace n  safety....

     Looks very simple n Eady going but countless of  orphans n fatherless ofs n youth's with Duck n helpless.kothers being taken care by close relatives. These relatives in too many youth lives , seems as too many cooks. This is based on the real life experience n exposures given by the close relatives to these Orphans.        Those who are suppose to sooth, Calm n create a peaceful environment fir these young people, make use these youngsters Innocence , by giving heavier n too complicating task beyond their capacity or willingness..No one has time fur these orphans. Only those who still hv their parents n contribute fir the young people's accomodation, meals n tuition fees ,are staying there n following every orders given by these "Cooks" who hv Bern their foster parents during School days..       Several adolescents runaway, n refuse to reveal their where about, later joined their other  relatives, n starts schooling under ...

         History of  Malaysia was part of  course in Malaysian School Syllabus in lower Secondary Text books distributed by Ministry of Education to all National Schools and Missionary schools.       In 1960 ies n 1970ies Missionary Schools n National Type Schools Principles were non Malays n non Muslims. Only National Primary n Secoundry School Principles were Local Malays. The top people in Admind mostly non Malays, and non Muslims  managed National Type primary and Missionary Schools. These National type Chinese  and Tamil Schools were known as Vernacular Schools.In Vernacular Schools Children Learn in their mother tongue and English and Bahasa Malaysia was taught as extra subject which need to Compulsary pass.         National type Schools were known as Sekolah jenis  Kebangsaan . These were the Vernacular Tamil n Chinese Schools.       Governments allocation for National type primary...

                  Everyone has their own.likes dislikes ,aims,ambition and future plans. But hving s cheap ,N disgusting Character n.Behaviiurn means, the whole generation will be affected, when Good men marrying wrong woman who seduced them, manipulate them n find various ways to enter one family.        Girls with good bringing up , good family back ground with mother who poses good nature , how ever difficult life ,will never find ways to manipulate or to force anywho to marry them or  even after marrying will.never cteate dramas,  to get money and material from.tbe family she joined.      Shockingly good son's marring Devilish woman started to inherit the weird nature abd Character of the beast they married.      Fevelush women.meabs, woman who fund various ways to Maje the one married her suffered ,gives various experiences to the man untill mage him a  weird human being. T...

        Humanity means shoeing the human values when in need or necessary and in.emergency. When humanity is missing , whatever the possession ,wealth One owns all seems nothing. When in emergency anyone tied their hand and watch or observe ,such people are unethical human beings. They dnt deserve respect n recognition in the Community .or Society.         Shockingly there are such heartless human being standing still watching.such emergency moments n relaxingly waits.. Either family or institutions need to  Teach and expose such norms n values to family.memvers or children since young.. So when they grief up they can exhibit such norms when necessary.      . 

        Being stingy in food, but spend luxury n lavishly to deco, the house ,to get toys fur the kids n to eat junk food   This is the habit of highly educated people married to a very calculative family without educational back ground. Two Contrast family back ground. Parents hv been feeding the young ones heakthy quality meal but marrying ,someone frm very basic n no Exposure about good food ,n healthy meal. Living a life of spending lavishly beyond  their basic take home.        Education seems waste on present-day people. The Tertiary grads seems the ones with wri6ng diet. What happen to the Countries schools , higher Education n even the basic ,nutrition,healthy life all these hv been neglected by present day Education, actually everytime,The Government Changes, The education  system,policies , Ideologies all changes . Spiritualism is being neglected by the most modern N extravaganza Community. Just like nutrition, mental...

     Mis Ponammal ,My primary School Teacher with the longest hair ever recorded m according to her s Last time she cut her haus was in yest 1966.     The year  I visited her after my PSKPP run at state level in year 2012. The year Manjung became Host  for state level Athletics meets. After long distant run,went back to my room ,wash up n visited my Primary Teacher with fruits. The reason ,This Teacher always adks my sister's about me, when.ever she meets them, or when ever my sister's attends programs or events she joins .        While I was on my.vidut. my Tea her was in her house all by her self, she took out a picture,of my senior students organizing a program for our Primary Teachers.  Her hair was let loose n.it falls on the floor n the length was unbelievable, must be more than 2 meters length. She plaited her hair n make several layers of plait,tied .       She has no commitment in her later years , ...

     Life is not a bed of Roses ,this is usually uttered by those living blessed life ,everything easy in life.      When parents being too kind n too good to others, this nature adapted by the Children based on the most controlling parent either mom or dad. When mom is too good, loving and Caring dad seems ,arrogant ,rude and Bossy.             People judge anyone based on the parents n their profession. People want only the best, everything better than their family back ground.          Better Qualification , Better Education n easily available. Youth's who dnt hv parents n living under Older Siblings Care, taken for granted, they are not given freedom to think, to live ,to study , to pursue hobbies, to dream. Being  fatherless means , live life of a refugee, move with the older sibling, move n change places when to many siblings  fix the life of the younger ones. Automatically as the y...

       Women who create alot of stories, dnt trust. Women who talks alot n talk greatly about their family means watch out. Women who talks , only talks are not any good man's or any good families Choice to be considered as a family member or to join any Families.        Woman who steal others belongings or take others things without getting the owners concern or aproval meas they never learnt or knows what it is Ethicsl. Woman who refuse to live with the husband I stead squatting or staying with the Parents are not exposed to etics or not aware about ethics. Something to looked down about woman is , getting married and neglecting the man she married but staying n living with parents . Negligence in bringing up, and that's the only way for the parents who don't hv an income at their late age, to take care of them.        Such human beings while their daughter still studying in Universiti, the parents  doing a research abou...

  How irresponsible a father can be..           A father left his children at the door of a baby sitters house without knowing they are in the house, unfortunately the baby sitters family hv gone away after licking the door theur house was on 2 nd floor. The father of the kids left the kids at lower level sering the clothes drying ,by looking frm ground floor. Their kids after knocking in the door n seeing it's locked n as bed no response. Walked back to their house following the oath n road which the father tajes to send them to the baby sitter house. 3 n 4 year old cc children while waiting at the busy road ,to cross the road. A man, pasfing by on bike sering two small kids with bags in their hand trying to criss the road. He asked them, where they are going ,they says going to their house. He asked them to guide to their house in his bike. Stopped infront of the house n asked the mother who was rushing to her working place thinking her husb...

     Human beings are bound to ethics, shockingly, girls raised by mothers , attended tertiary education. Living in dream world, not willing to.live with the man whom they married forcefully, with  Countless of dramas.   .....Never feel guilty, dnt realize their responsibility, want to live n living in own Dreamworld. Become " The Devil's factory" no responsibility n not willing to carry responsibility as a wife n as a mother.     Wasting time , doing nothing. If can't live with the man married rhy getting married , n staying with parents shameless  human being , why destroy an innocent man's life ,happiness ,future , just fur your filthy laziness. Such Lazy rude, Devil dnt deserve to live in this world. 

     Education, Tertiary level Education , not always being practiced correctly in Certain Professions by certain individuals.     Those in profession of Serving the Community n need to attend certain functions, must refer to the Higher People n Confirm n get clear picture about sending representatives replacing their presence with their Assistant or  their deputy or their Substitute in their absence especially attending or giving speech at higher  institutions.        It's really shocking  people's representative,unable to attend a function due to his personal reason, instead told his family member to attend that function in certain day n told that family member the time n place.        This matter was looked down by the family member who did not show serious or attempt to attend within the given time or at least within certain time. Someone irresponsible delayed almost 3 hours and inform the function Commi...

        Present day, Earlier days youngsters , no matter man or woman , those who hv been growing up freely moved a lot with friends' relatives, went thru countless of parties as they were growing up seems to be exposed to countless of negative words usage in their life. To any one who hv been raised by timid and closed family ties , life is a well disciplined  and  smooth. Human beings growing up in conservative and closed family culture think Contrast when compare themselves to those who grew u freely without restrictions.      The free goers utterances are more like vulgar words and harsh words sounds ormal to them, because they hv been used to all those words such as " fucking"  BITCH'  Hooker, hooked. even those who adress their friends as bitch never feel guilty because to them its fun to use such words, but to any one raised in Conservative culture such words are rude , arrogant and not suppose to be uttered. Its common such ...

        Dnt be too kind n too generous, because my father in-law was too generous n too kind ,own daughters treated him badly, his last days were nothing to cherish. Being a refugee in his own house.        Same with animals. When we feed them ,the next day, they bring their family n show them ,the people who feed them. When a deer was fed by a family ,the next day it brought it's family. It continues.    Same with human beings, when being too kind n generous,  people take advantage of the good human beings. They keep on giving headache n refuse to keep quite. Need to put full stop to all the good deeds. Not only people bring their family n relatives they keep on talking about their friends n people in position n people who hv been forgotten by the Society . Seeking the too good ones help..very funny isn't it..      Just keep away  from whoever brings tales n dramas to your house. Trying to be good. Shut your hou...

   Age 5 is the phase in life kids looking forward to spend their childhood days with their friends . Not many kids get the opportunity to hv friends or to play with  them.        As a little girl I had very few friends , Only my neighbourhood friends with whom I used to play around. Once ,while in house Compound I noticed my leg was wet n noticed I was bleeding, no pain n no wound.        Actually I urinated near an orange tree n below the tree several plants n weeds hv been Cleared. A sharp nedge has pierce n urutra while urinating , no pain n no feeling , only non stop bleeding. Sering me bleeding non stop my sisters were scared n asked furbhrlp. Our next doirbGooal uncle was there carried me on his arms like a baby n walked to the nearest clinic which is slmostb509 meters frm my house. Since no proper families there, I was Nathan to the only hospital with all the facilities ,that's Taiping Towns Government hospital . I was warde...

    A man and woman who did not get the chance to experience the youth.life in.School at teenage , married and started life. Both husband n wife did not get the ordinary way of growing up in family. The men started to  work at if year when he was only 15,the girl stopped schooling when failed lower Secoundry school. Some huw they met n fall in.live n stated life at early 20ies. First year of staying with inlaws was cherished by both if them being good brother n sister in-law but the 2 nd year sge started to experience boring n hatred. She manipulated her husband n mdvsged to get transfer fur him far away at east coast of Malaysia . Later the younger systerinlaw realized, her brother needed family to marry a gurl6, so he brought his om.n younger as sisters. When the syster in-law realized they dnt need anymore I their life. She wants to go far away frm her inlaws. All her attempts succeeded but her younger Children were the loosers.           ...