Chance of a life time

          

        Parents, Siblings, family , Childhood, Experiences, all these are something precious in every ones life. Family, Siblings love, are precious. When being Committed and devoted to family , or siblings , youngsters being treated , very strictly without giving any phase or  chance.

       Every one knows what their heart yearns. same with likes, emotions, feelings. too much care n too much concern kills the youngsters spirit and ability. as long siblings are single and not committed, they 

think they are the God to their younger siblings in the parents absence. But the truth is some how they hv been going thru severe stress when  being in charge of the young siblings. this situation cause the older ones to e very strict n close minded.

       Too much care and too much conservative means , a dangerous zone  for the innocencent younger ones. Arrange marriage, something they think the best , but this being a worst punishment for the younger one. in many cases, the girls are not given Choice to voiceout what they want to say. 

   Some meet the person they are marrying on their ROM day and after the ROM they manage to exchange few words . something sad about these family. educated older siblings seems to be the most conservative, Adament ones  involve in the younger siblings life. it takes the whole life for the younger one to survive the life and when they are already in 60ies. These victims realize, how foolish they hv been, being played, fooled,  by those they h trusted  life long.   So later age they seek isolation frm everything and finding peace in their heart by isolating them selves from those dictators and Hitlers.