The Bullies I met in Rural Secondary Schools Surroundings.

        I'm an explorer and adventurous, and eagerly wants for new experiences and new exposures. One might think if I’m a lady , I need to admit that I’m a very soft lady who loves expedition and  I’m adventurous. This could be something differentiating me from other ladies. Growing up with five boys and spent time with all my neighborhood boys and my class mates who were my childhood friends and I adapted their habits such as reading hardy boys and Nancy Drew mysteries and  during my late teenage years Barbara Cart land was my favorite author. My likes and hobbies i practiced life long  even after married and having kids with my husbands provably. After married I moved to a rural town to join my hubby who works here.

      

         Everything was like something weird , being active in rural area, especially a lady who is active in athletics and expedition  not really liked by others especially the rural women both educated and not educated, the guys observed me as if  im a funny creature, the worst part is, co teachers started to bully me due to my very friendly and  soft spoken style and , my weakness was, being kind to others, The worst part is rural bullies especially older students who left school and join other skill related courses, influenced by their older friends, who control them and listened to their friends who threatened them and  get money from them.

      

        I was even threatened by a boy’s mother to pay certain amount of money for knocking the sons bike, actually the situation was created by them and made it looked like an accident,  I was shocked when the mother called me and blackmailed me by telling that her son was badly injured and  I must pay the medical bills, it was  non stop calls and messages for almost  four hours. when I told them that everything will be settled  in few minutes and then there was no calls  and when I met the boys, I was shocked, both of them were healthy, and not even bruises on their legs. When i father was asked about the boys injured leg the father answered, my son is completely healthy, and no injuries and then he asked his son to apologize to me for being rude.i realized that life long learning and experiences are always for us as long we leave our home, in my case I'm a stranger to my own home town which I left almost 28 years ago. May be God want me to see the real hidden world and the world which is a century  back ward and the human beings who differ in emotional in their mental level. this could be a chance given to me by God to get maximum exposure of human beings in my life, which continues life long.