Experience and exposure in a different environment

  

         When I recall my childhood days growing in a Village which is in a town and all those latest facilities were available though it was in seventies, But after married and moved to a most remote district in my state has given me shock. I was shocked to find out the lack of emotional intelligence which I observed among the people, in that area. The very shocking story is about the literate and non literate community, who live among their own clans. Raised in a big family with siblings of really educated and exposed to the outside world, my childhood days were full of experiences and beautiful memories. Moving to a unknown strange world where no relatives or friends around this place has really shocked me, the reason is the community in this area evaluate people from their glamour and style not because of the intelligence or emotional statement.

         

      Lately after moving to higher secondary school, I was even shocked, when the human beings I met, I mean those called the “educators” unable to treat everyone equally and they were easily influenced by those new comers who really fancy them in their glamorous outfits.I was shocked even the Grad were unable to show appreciation for one's intellectual. 

     Once for no reason,  an educators who was really totally carried away with one of the lady, started attacking me  for no reasons the reason he gave was , i envy the ‘so called”  “ Teacher” that’s why he was angry with me, he kept on pointing  his index finger  at me, when the assembly was over and the students were going back to their classes, I was very angry with his approach and told him never ever point his index finger towards me,I  told me not to use his fingers and stop pointing at me and told him its rude to do so, he was acting continuously and in front all the students and then he  told me to get lost.

      I told him he  is wrong and he is going to regret for his behavior.On the same day around noon he came to my class and apologized to me for his behavior, and  he said that he was not sure why he was behaving so weirdly. I accepted his apology and told him thats alright.

    

       This incident really shocked me, because he never ever treated or behaved in such manner to me in my 8 years of Teaching in this higher secondary school. The So called admirer “ the woman”  he mentioned treated me in the same manner twice in the presence of many Teachers’ in the staff room.

        Something which I found out about these two characters, they both come from broken families, and both went through growing up in misery during their younger days. No wonder, their reaction has stirred my heart and soul for some time, but now I accept it as a learning process of knowing about   the weaknesses of these two Teachers.  The man Teacher on   the same day met me and apologized to me for his behavior, he told me he didn't know why he behaved in such manner. I told him that we are ordinary human beings and cant run away from errors. The women Teachers still the same arrogant and keep on influencing the majority of the staff, and I’m maintaining the distance, because when one unable to react to others according to situations, the best thing can be done is avoiding such characters.

     Now very late in life I realize how lucky I'm to have such darling Teachers’ as my gurus and lovely husband who has helped me to achieved my childhood dreams and  cherished my life and my kids are not to be missed out , they have been such little darlings who have been very supportive for their mothers achievement. God is really great, that’s why he has been giving me exposure of experiences from different situations and circumstances.