The Dominating Older Siblings.

In most of families with out parents or in the absence of Parents the older siblings play or carry out the role of parents. in this situation, the younger ones likes or interest or aims in life no one botheres to know or listen to the crying eyes or their plea. They want to be great parents they want their kids to hv luxury n easy life, no matter how they perform in school. These parents give the maximum luxury n experience, to their Children.Isnt it funny, they have been vv strict with their Siblings. Never give them Chance to talk, or to share , or voice out their view. But gives maximum freedom n luxury n spoil their life by feeding them Continuesly.... Their act is worse than a miser. Close their heart to own siblings but extreemly generous to their kids..Untill others envy them not only that but telling proudly about the new luxury Car bought for their Children. The thing both husbabd n wife lack in their life is religious views. Both of them posses vv high level of Confidence, its a pity the wife hardly read any books since younger days.. Once a vv humble and simple woman tramendously changed into a vv proud woman. Untill certain experiences waits for her. Most of the parents qho never had normal childhood life, make great mistakes in life by raisingbtheur cjikdren like pets. The best cloths, best food, good luxury life n raise them in a fake world by not giving the basic needs growing needs. Playing in the feild, breathing fresh air. Run or jog in a park, outing with family on weekends, having Pets, playing with their children. These are the basic needs to fulfill or to awaken a childs mind n heart. Most of the parents, think n act as providers and not as empehethic or caring human beings. To these great parents, going oversea, celebrating Derpavalli in a foreign land away from tje maternal and paternal relatives m.Dinlings serms tp be something best furbtheir children.Due to their over confident Parents thinking. They them self close the doors of their Childrens outside world and and beong a block to their social life. Which prevent b these kids when grown as adults. Being vv stingy, and unable tp yrust anyone or to Socialize. A mother who saw her girls going out with their causin brothers in group, telling her own sister inlaw that others or outsiders will talk about their girls going out with boys. This mother sees her husbands brothers children as outsiders and unable to accept them as her kids or as her relatives. Later her daughters unable to avceot any boys as theur frends or unable to hv a boy friends.They cant trust anyone because, the Confidence level was vv low because the mother failed to mould them as Confident youths. Money seems to be everything in these womens life, till their selfishness, being the most important thing in their life, life long.