New Comers presence in the family

New Comers in family bring along Vibes either good or bad Vibes. They can be inlaws either, sister inlaws, brother inlaws, daughter inlaws or Son inlaws. Pets also belongs to this category of New Comers.Pets Presence is most cherished by all n its vv rare, hate or Complicated Situations created by these pets. When a brother who is an achiever gets married and a new comer enters the family means its vv different. As far as I come thru these situation, The newComers especially the young ones try to dominate the family n the people in the family he or she joins as a new member. Particularly when the inlaws personal hobbies or interest being interfered by the so called new Comer, which creates ample of uneasy among the family members. The worst is a school drop out inlaw , choose wedding as a solution to fulfill all her dreams thru marriage.Though her family back ground was not as equal as the boys family but her aims n dreams in life were as high as mountai husbabd bought dur hern. she achieved all her dreams with out any effort but only by influencing her hubby, who worked day and night, without good meal , without rest and his aim was only to fullfill his wives, wishes . untill the decissions he made for his youbger siblings has caused some uneasy, environment and situations. Those Younger ones whom he was suppose to assist n guide, He left his younger siblings and moved to a far away place which is almost oneday traveling from his siblings. His promises regarding the younger ones wellness and education all gone with him, only to please his uneducated or school dropout wife. Beyond his ability he fulfilled his kids wives wishes. Once to suppoet the youbger siblings education, he never think . But sownt lavishly fur his wife m kids world travel n by getting luxury Cars for them.Untill the wife proudly telks her younger sister inlaws, that " My hubby bought thus car for my secnd girl. The price only 280 K. After few months when the youngers sister inlaw visit her sister inlaw on her way to her bew home, sge stoped at her brothers bisness centre which was taken care by his wife, She told her sister inlaw about the Car her husband bought fur her daughter , when she Completed her course. She talks proudly that her daughter drives that luxury car to her training Centre..