Never judge a book by its Cover

        As how this was shared by a lady..

      A very good looking young man, being the only son to the family with many daughters. Family was.livimg as extended family with aunt's uncles n Cousin's under one roof. Once the father was supporting the family n as the boy was   growing up, one by one the family members ,the aunt's n uncle's married off by the father n only the children were left in the house with the parents. The eldest girls after school started to earn but focusing on her self grooming n dressing rather than having time with siblings., at age 14 this boy started to work as an assistant to a man n followed him in his vehicle. 

    This boy hardly gets chance  to mingle or learn anything frm educated adults. Labourers n self employed people only were in his list of people n non of them helpt him to hv or to adapt any norms or values. Those what he learnt frm his mom when young only practiced by him.Too many selfish relatives, he was  staying with his uncle's family when he was 12 years, during s hool.holidsys. his uncle seri g him going fishing , going here n there, difficult to control so tied him many many hours to a tree, Pity the young boy was tortured emotionally by  relatives, so he can be a discipline boy, wrong method of discipling, that was  heartless way of punishing him. 

      As he was growing up, his mom fall sick , the younger ones were on their own, unable to focus in studies or to help them selves . Learnt all the bad words, only filthy words and arrogant words came out frm his mouth.

    There were several girls after him, but he rejects them ,saying his family comes first.,But with his older friends goes to night club  after getting his pay n got drunk . Whatever he learns n keeps in his pocket, stole by his eldest sister. No body take initiative to teach him, correct him or to advice him   without asking him,the father finds out about the sons latest places of interest, he found an educated girl but family oriented girl ,who dedicated her life for her siblings n their family for raising her. 

    The father was very smart , he learnt that the girl dnt hv  father but only sick mother, the boys father's intention was , marrying that girl to his son so the daughter in law will take care of his daughters n support the whole family all by her self. 

    This girl was not ready to get married ,due to being young , work not permanent ,n she was ambitious, too many proposals and opposed f marriage, she denied n.opposed n  opposed , telling she is not ready , but her fate was in her older siblings hands .They decided n fixed everything with out her concern.Her ROM was the continues tears shedding day.  A family n people who are strangers, who are contrast in everything, she went thru in  her life. thru marriage. The next day of her marriage, the main Director at the new family she joined was the eldest daughter, the older sister of the man she married, 3 Aunt's thru her mom side were in that house . One was very loving and caring ,told the girl not to wash cups or plates fur some time n stopped her frm doing any house work. But the sister in-law n two more aunt's made her sister inlaw got sun after sending her husband to town n to a twin which is hajd an hour ride frm their house to get things. At least 2 to 3 hours needed fur the husband to be back home after getting all the things needed fur the night feast at the bridge grooms houses. 

    Several kg of huge  piece of mutton was in a plastic bag laid beside her, several.kg of long beans , several huge cabbage were set beside her she was given a chopping board n a knife and asked to cut everything. She started cutting in in almost in half an hour , she started feeling the sweat frm her body dye to direct sun burn on her body which was exposed . 

     She realized the Cunning drama created by the hatred sister in-law to make her feel bad so she will.leave the house soon. Though she was treated badly, she didn't tell her husband wht situation she was put into by the stringer n very influencial woman in that family.

      She started shedding Tears, n wipe her tears, after 3 hours her husband the new groom reach home with the listed things asked by the influencial woman of that house.

    The sister in-law was shocked to see the new family.member being too kind and naive. So she n her husband joined her n her husband life long for vacation n to rest. The girl whom the older sister treated badly when she joined the family , she started to show her power by asking her brother to get provision ,food, and whatever that is needed for the celebration  just to Maje this sister-in-law angry, but the new suster in-law being silent n.never said anything to the heartless , selfish woman.

           Such behaviour is considered low grade or no class , or no Ethics or no Norms. People with dignity will think twice before pursuing such cheap n disgrace ACT which is equal to lazy meal, or anything donated by others, if non stop or life long.means, people with dignity hardly accept whatever given by others or others hard earned money...