Those mis home life with parents

       Having bigger number of choldren seems a choice ofr parents who grewup as single child or as a helpless child. wshen these single peple get married, they want  many children, so they wont feel lobnely and their children will have many brothers and sisters to refer. But always the other way round. As the kids grow and turned into adult hood. they focus to build them selves and not to focus to educate or to provide good education for the younger siblings. As long the younger ones schooling, they are being cared by the older siblings. but when the older ones started to build their life by getting married to their choice of life partner. their focus more on personal growth.

     How to provide the best life for the girl or man whom they hv been married to. the younger ones needs and likes not bothered. The life of a refugee, this is what the younger ones strted to face in life.The younger ones stop schooling after high school and asked to find a job. the older one started to be the mentor of the youn g ones to manage the finance. So the older sibling strated to play the role of finance Minister by handling and managing the income of the younger one. No one advice or ask the youn ger one to pursue higher studies. no one is there to support the yolunger ones. the younger one force to get a job as a clerk and managesown life. This is the real life sitauion faced by youths growingup in the absence of fathers or parents. the younger ones future is not bothered by the older ones, they jiusy wnt the young one to get married to their choice, whether the young one llike or not, its compulsory for the younger soibling to ober the older ones  decission. younger omnes not allowed to give their view or say wht they want. The young ones asked to say yes or agree with the older ones choice.

        This  is the tradition or culture of those older ones who hv been sent to work at young age to work ,earn and support the parents without their concern. Same these siblings apply on the younger ones life and future by making decdissions which not agreed or liked by the young one..again for the second time a younger sibling Victimized by the older one without their Concern as how the parents didnt / refuse to give freedom to choose to the young ones.the oldwer ones focus to build their own life , future and family as they like but the younger girls being victimized knowingly, which is considered cruel, abd killing the young ones spirit.