The Fault Finder ( Ones behavior )

My dad was a fault finder with National electricity Board as long he was alive. This was uttered by my mom, to any one who cimes to our house asking about my dads profession after his death. This has been sewn insude my mind. But after exactly 12 years aftwr my fathers death , I was proposed by my brothers favourite family n close friwnds fievtheir relatives Son. My answer was no , no, no and never. The older ones fecided and fuxed everything with out my concern. Though I didnt like theb' boy of their Choice , the reason , my orevious experince of observing myncjildhood friends sister inlaw married her close relative n was not realy liked by her coliques because hexqas a school ckerk. How the Tamil school Teachers responded to her because her hubbybwas vv good looking man ,where she was not equal or notb etter looking .. The fault finder came into my life again but in the firm of an agressive, arrogant , abusive man in fewbyears od marriwd life. Thw fault finder tbis timebis the man Im married to.His profession was clerical but in state government office. He started to find faults fur no reason, simply created situations and started to torture me emotionally , my feelings, started using Vulgar words, abusive words. Missery started to hun me. The real mentally and emotionally disturbed man I saw just when his favourite aunt and uncle transfered to the place we hv been living. Daily life was a missery, my cries were extending. Children were going thru terrible situations. My life was my kids, he tried his best with his own older Siblings n close relatives and started abusing me. his close relatives were my brothers favourite people, from , weeks , mobths and to years it continued..My girl was in mid teens. She couldnt study seeing her dad torturing and abusinf her mom. She too cried and wants to jounvviaeding school. Some how she Managed to join a achool in India after O level exam. The reason, sgexwants to away from her dad who tirtures her mom.Her grandmothers sick, thats mwntal sickness her dad inherired just kike his sisters, thas why for no reason he has been creating havvoc n nuisance for her mum life long. All the siblings take medicine as though food daily, they all surviving and going thru daily life with various tyoes of tablets prescribed by doctor. .Diebetic treatment, high blood pressure, tablets for heart function, taking insulin. With all these , still continuesly torturing non stop.. This situation has caused his wife to stop seeing , meeting or having any activiry with any of his favourite people. Living lifelong with a mentally affected person is a miracle. Only very special human veings can go theu such tough and dangerous situation. The lady has lived lifelong wirh this man. Had children, raised them educated them ans now waiting for her secound Childs wedding. This Fault finder never Changed or never feel blessed or grateful for his wifes Sacrifices or the Tortures he created fur her. She still lives by acepting all his this limitations n he keep on torturing n giving her amples of nightmares continuesly.