Perfection

    This word seems like a manthra to anyone who lives in their own world life long n dominates others especially their own bloods and life partners.

      Since young i'm used to listening lots of comments mostly irrurayws or annoyfw long by certain close family memberss me or makes me feel a me feel uncomfortable words about me to others . Though I  have Two older sisters who got married when I was 13 n another One when I was 15.None of them teach or guided me about cleaning  ,cooking or handling family matters. Somehow I managed to learn everything my self by errors. 

      The woman who we're after men married n seettled in life, many of them good at managing finaces, but not good or not learnt about basic cooking of delicacies or sweets. Few hardly learnt to peel eggshells, or to prepare tradisional or culture delicacies of certain festives delicacies or sweets of their own religion..  after seeing, mingling n learning about these ladies I realized that I hv been fooled and pinnalized by own siblings  life long they can control my movements , my thoughts, my likes n my donts . The great life lessons that I learnt was never try to please or try to be nice to Any One, just be ur self.

      Those who not so good in studies attend University but a hardworking and inteligent girl not given choice by her older siblings on anything either education, life matter or career. Even with her salary her older siblings the perfectionist bought something of her choice but not the girls taste , choice or wish.. this continued till many many years. Many shocking experiences waits her in University, because most of her married course mates we're frm vv basic families but married to someone highly educated and life was rrly easy fir them. Though their background was much simpler n.lower than hers.