BROTHERS LOVE FOR THEIR SISTERS

     Growing up in a big family with many siblings and in-laws, I found that each and every individual differs in many ways. Some lifelong playing the role of giver and others tend to be the receivers for life long. I’m really shocked, to experience life long, some brothers have been the providers and some sisters being the receivers, and several of them 100 percent being dependent lifelong.

    Several brothers supporting their family life long though, they have been married and settled with several kids. Some brothers, very rare ones, lifelong buying gifts for their sisters for festive days even though they have grown up and married daughters. Something that I have learnt is brother’s love their family and also their sisters lifelong and provide the best for them as long they can afford.

   There are sisters who envy their own little sisters and make arrangements, so the sisters will get married and move far away from them, so they can get the full attention of their  brothers, the little sisters being a burden to the older ones. There are very rare cases that in certain families little sisters are being made nanny’s to take care of the older sisters kids, until the little sister grownups as a woman, get married and move away from the family. This tradition is being practiced in Hindu Families. Where a girl is burden with family responsibilities at a tender young age, so later when she gets married to a stranger, she is ready to face the new challenging environment. That’s why most of the girls who have been raised traditionally, capable to play the role of a mother, wife and being an all rounder.

    Old traditions and values seems conservative but, the life style managed to build or mould strong Individuals.