The less fortunate Kids.

      Being an educator and taught in rural school.Where the  kids lack basic facilities in life, but growing up with parents,seemed far more valued the values in life compared to the illegitimate kids, such illegitimate kids lack most of the important skills in life and unable to perform properly, any task given to them. 
   Commitment and and dedication shown by the kids who were brought up in less conducive environment but by the mothers who spend time  with them .What I have learnt from these kids is the  time spent by the caring mothers and family members has made them a stronger individual who dare to complete any task given to them, and the survival skills were seen much stronger in them. This is the real life situation I have experienced with the emotionally balanced kids.

    The kids growing up in family environment with many siblings seemed to be talented than the illegitimate kids,such kids exposed to various situations and seemed to be good communicators unlike the illegitimate kids who seemed to be more reserved and hardly express their ideas or be a good role model to others. Some kids who were in such environment most of the time being pampered by their close family friends or relatives. As far as I know hardly these illegitimate kids live  with one partner, or even if so, they tend to have multiple affairs, through which they try to find solutions. Most of these illegitimate kids, rushed in to marriage or in love ,seeking for a secured life, but mistakenly choose wrong partners and suffer. Since these kids, grew with out fathers support, and in less conducive environment, they tend to do naything just to get the material or materialistic life, which they assume, that it promises them happiness. But only later these individuals realize happiness is not material but being true to the partner,