As I see It

                            Teacher is a common Term used in daily life.  My case its different, life long I hv been a MURABBI to the youngsters and the adults in family Circle, in Working environment, in the family That I joined and in those Schools I hv been Teaching life long. SWEAT, THAS VERY COMMON IN MY DAILY WORKING LIFE. DESPITE being a woman . i hv been given various task which hv been neglected by those in charge by those in admind, i accept everything silently with openheart and managed to comlete n perfromed my task well.      

  When being too humble too good. The outcome, beimg treated as alow category human being by all those you hv been watching sharing m spent time with. The word family , siblings love misused for no reason, victimized Continuesly , family  life married life damaged. Those whom trjsted  misused kindness and rtake advantage of ones good nature.         By the time realize , that we hv been misused, fooled an dtaken advantage by those whom we trusted, heart aches. Damage is severe, cant be repaired or healed, but live with the pain, pain of hrt badly by those whom we hv trusted.

                Home the place we grew up, had all our childhood memories were the ones , last or live within  every child untill they leave this world. Same with my childhood and teenage years. the most memorable ones in my life, my best yaers and happiest yaers in my life where i lived as i wish. Years after these , were not much to recal or hv any sweet or pleasant memories. Life being dominated by others, emotions , feelings, likes mnothing I could decide but only the older ones as they wished. Life of a puppet tied to a string, that was the life,               A meaning less situation, forced into by older siblings withput my side opinion. unable to oppose their orders. I think I lost all those who were in my life during my teenage years, my memories, my likes , my aims. after these years, life was only as aemotionless living bone and Skin. Only marriage was a choice which \was  the only choice to ...

      Teenagers raised by older siblings, hardly get moral support, emotonal support of what evertheir likes and hopes for future , education and life seems a question. Countless of teenagers are forced to stop schooling and to work and earn .Though these kids are far better in studies in cocurricylar activities and in life matters compared with other ordinary kids raised by parents.          A child who lost their father or mother burden with unneccessary responsibilies at a very tender age by the so called older siblings. They take care of the home the older siblings kids, take care of sick mother. cookm wash clothes and clean the house in zero comform zone or environment. fire wood is searched, water from well is gathered, which need ample of strenth and energy which puls down this young adults enenrgy which caused late developement in physical growth and emotional level and feelings. late hormaonal developments.      as these yo...

                                    Everyone gets opportunity to show and care the close family, either as aguide, tutor, care taker or as a responsible human being. Not many make use of the opportunity to create a good life, a safer and quality future for the younger siblings in the absence of  parents. Parents absenmce are hardly filled completely by older siblings when it comes to their life, future and fate. not bother attitude, taking thimgs for granted, make fun of the younger ones , be liitle them or never give preference for their emotional welness , needs wants , donts. as how pets are taken care thats how most of the younger ones raised by countless of older siblings, they were feed, given cloths and looked after. their needs, wants and hates, no one bothers to know, or to undersatnd. its really funny safety and basic need nly being the main matter or important in m ost of the people...

   A naive lady was in tears , sharing her married life which was totally controlled by a insane, greedy woman, who neglected own younger siblings, when young , after started working and earning came home late in weeke, after spending time outing with her boy friend     Being the eldest Child, this woman never guide or teach her younger siblings the basic things in life. Only she is highly educated among all the siblings but being a life long problem creator for all the siblings..        When in high school , nothing she did for her younger ones either, guiding  them in education, studies or with family chores, the reason, she hardly stays in the house, she was outside the whole day my.ehen it's dark only came home, n eat the food cooked by her only brother or father.       As long she was in  primar, such as cleaning, cooking, taking care of the younger ones, family chores were divided by the extended family mem...

          A very Shocking Truth, A dominating older sister, has been eating all her life with her dad's n her own younger siblings earnings, other than her husbands money.      Shocking but that's the truth. An older sister ,who neglected her own family members n never bother to educate, guide or assist or spend time with her own siblings. After getting married n having children of her own, used her own younger sisters as  easy maids with no pay. That's her own younger siblings whom she didn't bother to talk, to spend time with them  or to guide,   Seeing her kids growing up, decided her own way by interrupting in her father's n sisters personal life . The people whom she neglected and hardly bother to assist or help. Their salary , , their time , their happiness, everything she controlled..    Time answer the questions. Who ever been busy, Changed everything for the benefit, which though could not resist.. Easy, everythin...

      Not once but continuesly many times, people hv given  bad experiences non stop. Few created hell non stop.one life long, continued her wicked nature.          Simple n very  basic situations which suppose to end up cool created into havoc. Once pregnant wife was forced to left behind me stay alone in a deserted house fir few days by her husbands close relatives who Controlled his life fully, till he did not bothered ABT the wife n kids but only his relatives Occupied his mind 24 hours.       Once for  the mother in-laws funeral , daughter in-law was left alone in the house n only the husband was escorted by his aunt and her husband. The kids were taken with the husband. Countless of inhuman situations created by the husbands close relatives n his own older Sister, as though the sister was everything in his life. The truth, the older sister , fought with her husband n.motber in-law n elope to her only brothers ho...

    Age 40 was a turning point with new opportunities in life after being a mobile teacher from 1989 till year  2002.     Pahang rural town is Kuala Lipis , this was the place I was placed for my first years introduction of 3 Months in Service course, which could help me to continue my higher studies at Tertiary level. During this 3 months we were pd daily 10 ringgit, accommodation allowance with full salary . The distance was unbearable. No transport to come home strait after lecture. The only bus that goes to KL, all the Tickets bought by the Diploma  students  pursuing Teaching Course in this College.       Something unique at this place, nature is preserved , The Pahang Royals hv close bond with  local Community and organise Hari Raya Open house at the town hall for the public.       Most of the course mates are frm outside few  local students joined our class. One of the local student is the oldest, n posses...

   Thrifty ! some people,beiñg ignorant about alit of basic needs , À girl wore1 school gown dàily to school for 2 yeàrs,the gowñ faded ñ worn out.  The gaun,was bought by her father beginning of the year when school reopens .         After 6 months the father died, This girl n her younger sister were taken care by her older sisters . Both were the back bone of their family. Both learnt stitching n stitched beautiful gauns for the little sisters.      The next year the 2 nd sister started working n stayed at the place she was working deep inside a sugar cane plantation, quarters provided for the staff. The eldest girl in the family was only 9  year plus when her father stopped her schooling ,when her mom was sick n there were younger brothers in the house need to be taken care by her. So her IQ, exposure about alot of things are not mature enough . Only her nanny skills , house keeping cooking abilities were good.    ...

        Schools are childrens favourites place to play , learn , to relax for anyone who is  ambitious. When kids stop schooling or refuse to go to school means. Something wrong there.  Which scares the child, Either bullied, treated badly , mistreated or not bothered by others.               Secoundry Schools being the main place, Countkess of school drop outs. Either in rural or Town area Schools. The schools with cot less of students stoop schooling seems the schools with happy educators with their own Circle / group enjoying their life...             Decoy dry schools need extra Teachers or man.power or Educator to Mahe this institution, happier, to Create a more happier environment for the Kids to learn in safer , healthier n Happier Environment ..    Government should allocate more Teachers to government schools to help the younger generation to study , learn  acquire...

          What i learnt experienced and practiced since young nurtured me into a bold , energetic young woman. After married started life at a place , in schools , hardly dedicated ,Commited human beings, were seen. Students frm far back ward families añd parents.Teaching holisticslly every thing a human needs to live a complete life. A trainer ,a coach, a mentor.                        where ever I went, which ever school I was posted the same problematic situation When.moved to Secouñdry schoolmore energy needed, more Teachiñg hours,hours including weekends. More sweet drinks. I was Consuming to manage the maximum number of students, who were the çhosen ones who were too playful n naughty..Teaching in the afternoon . Having maximum number of problem students.             I started to boost my stamina with sweet drinks in the afternoons. This habit caused ...

              Life long one Psycho was controlling her siblings and her parents. The parents income, siblings income, family matters decissions . First she asked her younger sisters to stay at home when they Can go out and work.Her intention us to.make all her siblings her life long slaves and, she Controlled them, life long.            Her husband was angry with her ste of dominating her younger sisters. He tried to make her realize how stupid she has been.by making her own younger ones more like her slaves. She finished spending in few months.             Her dad was angry with all her wicked aproaches.Making her own.blood living like slaves, Her father also.finished. Same with her mother inlaw. After all the Older ones who wete angry with her gone forever .               i mean left this world. Her game started even wilder n misteries, He...

My childhood was something interesting, outing in thebfeilds with mybfruends, giingbto Temole earkt morning abs during recess break was simething Common. twicw avday we perfirm peaywrs in tbe Teme warkt morning abd during recess untoll i reffreerd or tL to lord GNesga in mtbgeart as Thondhi Ganesha , Pillayarappa , Yanai mugathon.. kolukattai mothGham, Panchamurtham, Neisatham, palsatham , sakkarai ponggal , all thesevwere.tjw most delucious snacks i ever tasted in.Temple. puliyotharai was anothervsatham.kniwn as pulichoru. though my sisters used to prepare , Ulunthu kanji, Oats Porridge, jelly , kwsari and wajik as anacjs. Butbthe Temple prasadhams were the best Taste overall , thwvtaste still lives in my heart n in my tougue till today.

           A well learnt Priest , He learnt Vetham in his country, married his wife, migrated to Malaysia, all his children were born here. The eldest girl used to sing in Marghazhi month early mornings in Temples. His eldest son was working in Ministry after graduated frm local University. His daughter married off to a priest family and She lives in the same town. His two younger Children were studying in Secoundry School.They had their own plates when eating in their house.All his Children are good in studies. The two younger ones were the ones given freedom to choose their study and their life partners. A man who studied Vetham, married had his children performed his duty as a Temple priest being kind to all those who came to the Temple.         Nadaraja Iyer thats his name, He is lame, one of his legs has injuries, he walks fast just by big laps, every step was a fast step. His every step was a big lap, fast moving . ...